How can we apply Jesus' example of discretion in our daily witness? Setting the Scene “ He strictly ordered them not to let anyone know about this, and told them to give her something to eat.” (Mark 5:43) The synagogue ruler’s daughter has just been raised from the dead. Instead of calling for headlines, Jesus hushes the room and moves the family into simple, practical care. His power is public-worthy, yet His instruction is private—pure discretion. What We Learn From Jesus’ Quiet Command • He refuses to exploit a miracle for fame (cf. Mark 1:44; 7:36; 8:26). • He protects the girl and her family from a circus-like frenzy. • He places obedience above publicity. • He trusts the timing of the Father’s larger redemptive plan (John 7:6). Why Discretion Matters in Our Witness 1. Guards motives – “Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be seen by them.” (Matthew 6:1) 2. Preserves credibility – “A trustworthy person keeps a confidence.” (Proverbs 11:13) 3. Prevents stumbling blocks – The dazzled crowd often sought miracles, not the Messiah (John 6:26). 4. Honors the Spirit’s timing – “There is… a time to be silent and a time to speak.” (Ecclesiastes 3:7). Practical Ways to Follow His Example Today • Check heart motives before you speak: – Am I promoting Christ or myself? • Respect privacy: – Share testimonies only with permission; keep counseling conversations confidential. • Avoid hype-driven methods: – Let Scripture and love carry the weight, not theatrics or clickbait. • Choose the right setting: – Nicodemus approached Jesus by night (John 3:1-2); some discussions flourish one-on-one. • Speak with measured clarity: – “Be quick to listen, slow to speak.” (James 1:19) • Wait for receptive hearts: – Paul left Athens when scoffing rose yet stayed eighteen months in Corinth when fruit appeared (Acts 17–18). • Let deeds precede words: – Feed the child—then explain the miracle. Simple compassion authenticates proclamation (1 John 3:18). • Rely on the Spirit, not volume: – “Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit,” says the LORD (Zechariah 4:6). Balancing Silence and Boldness Discretion never equals cowardice. Jesus restrained publicity yet still preached openly when the moment was right (Mark 1:38-39). Likewise: • We remain ready: “Always be prepared to give a defense… with gentleness and respect.” (1 Peter 3:15) • We stay unashamed: “I am not ashamed of the gospel.” (Romans 1:16) The wisdom lies in knowing when quiet faithfulness carries the testimony further than loud announcements. Living It Out This Week ✓ Before posting a spiritual insight online, pray: Would silence serve the person better? ✓ In the office, mention Christ naturally when asked about your weekend rather than forcing a monologue. ✓ When God works privately in someone’s life, celebrate with them, not the crowd. ✓ Let everyday kindness—offering a meal, listening, helping—open doors for gospel conversations at the Spirit’s prompting. Conclusion—Discreet, Yet Radiant Jesus’ hush in Mark 5:43 isn’t about hiding truth; it’s about highlighting God’s glory over human applause. Imitate that balance, and your witness will shine—not with spotlight glitz, but with the steady glow of authentic, Spirit-led testimony. |