How can we apply Paul's intentionality in relationships to our church community? Seeing People, Not Passing Through “For I do not want to see you now only in passing; I hope to stay with you for a while, if the Lord permits.” (1 Corinthians 16:7) • Paul valued presence over fleeting contact. • 1 Thessalonians 2:8 shows the same heart: “We were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God, but our own lives as well.” • In our congregation, resist hurried hellos. Slow down, look people in the eye, learn their stories, and remember names. Making Room for Meaningful Time Together • Schedule unhurried gatherings—meals, prayer nights, game evenings. • Encourage small-group settings that let relationships deepen. • Acts 20:20: “I did not shrink from telling you anything that was helpful, and teaching you publicly and from house to house.” Homes become classrooms for discipleship. Letting the Lord Direct Our Calendars • Paul planned but submitted: “if the Lord permits.” • James 4:15 echoes this posture. • As a church, prayerfully set dates, ask God to confirm, and hold plans loosely. Flexibility honors His sovereignty. Mutual Encouragement as the Goal • Romans 1:11-12 reminds us that shared time strengthens both giver and receiver. • Celebrate testimonies, share answered prayers, sing together, and practice gentle correction. Everyone walks away built up. Practicing Intentional Hospitality • Romans 12:13 calls us to “seek to practice hospitality.” • 1 Peter 4:9 urges hospitality “without complaining.” • Open homes for newcomers, international students, widows, and young families. Provide rides, share tools, babysit—creative kindness turns strangers into family. Strengthening the Whole Body • Ephesians 4:15-16 links each member’s contribution to the church’s health. • Pair mature believers with new ones for mentoring. • Encourage gifts: teaching, service, mercy, giving. Intentional relationships help each part do its work. Practical Steps for Our Church Family – Greet three people you do not know well every Sunday and follow up during the week. – Adopt “linger time” after services—no announcements, just conversation space. – Establish monthly shared-meal nights hosted by rotating families. – Form prayer trios that meet weekly for twenty minutes. – Keep a “Lord willing” mindset on every calendar item, adjusting when He redirects. Reflection Verse Bank 1 Corinthians 16:7 • 1 Thessalonians 2:8 • Acts 20:20 • Romans 1:11-12; 12:13 • James 4:15 • Ephesians 4:15-16 • 1 Peter 4:9 |
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