How can we apply the lesson of Proverbs 25:27 in daily interactions? The Verse at a Glance “ It is not good to eat too much honey, nor is it honorable to seek one’s own glory.” (Proverbs 25:27) Honey and Heart: Understanding the Picture • Honey: a good, God-given delight (Judges 14:8-9) that becomes harmful in excess (Proverbs 25:16). • Seeking personal glory: the spiritual equivalent of over-indulging—tasty for a moment, but it spoils fellowship with God and people. • The warning: even legitimate pleasures or recognition become sin when self takes center stage. Principle 1: Practice Moderation • Food, hobbies, entertainment, even ministry tasks—good gifts can dominate our schedule or budget if not restrained (Philippians 4:5 “let your gentleness [reasonableness] be known”). • Ask, “Is this serving God and others, or simply feeding my appetite?” (1 Corinthians 6:12). Principle 2: Pursue Humility, Not Self-Glory • Scripture repeatedly commands humility (James 4:6; 1 Peter 5:5-6). • Let God and others do the exalting (Proverbs 27:2 “Let another praise you, and not your own mouth”). • Christ Himself “made Himself nothing” (Philippians 2:5-8) and is our ultimate model. Daily Interaction Toolbox • Begin conversations with genuine interest in the other person; ask, listen, affirm. • When complimented, receive graciously and pass the credit upward (Psalm 115:1). • Limit stories that showcase your achievements; share testimonies that spotlight God’s faithfulness instead. • Serve quietly: anonymous generosity, unseen helps, private prayers (Matthew 6:3-4). Guardrails for Social Media and Conversation • Post to bless, inform, or edify, not to parade accomplishments (Ephesians 4:29). • Pause before uploading: “Would this still matter if no one ‘liked’ it?” • Avoid subtle bragging (“humble-brags”) that fish for affirmation—trust the Lord to supply worth (Psalm 139:13-14). Encouraging Others Instead • Shift the spotlight: publicly honor coworkers, family, and fellow believers (Romans 12:10). • Offer sincere, specific praise—“I saw how you…”—building up the body of Christ (1 Thessalonians 5:11). • Pray for opportunities to celebrate God’s work in someone else each day. Living for Eternal Honor • True glory belongs to God alone (Isaiah 42:8). • Lasting honor comes when He says, “Well done, good and faithful servant” (Matthew 25:21). • Aim for that commendation by keeping honey—and honor—in their proper portion, delighting more in His fame than our own. |