How can we apply Rehoboam's story to our decision-making processes today? Starting Point: A New King at Shechem “Then Rehoboam went to Shechem, for all Israel had gone there to make him king.” (2 Chronicles 10:1) Where Rehoboam Went Wrong • The people asked for lighter labor and taxes (vv. 3–4). • Rehoboam first consulted the seasoned elders, who urged gentleness (v. 7). • He then turned to the young men he grew up with; they pushed harshness (vv. 8–11). • He chose the second counsel, answered with arrogance, and split the kingdom (vv. 12–19). Timeless Principles for Our Decisions • Seek multiple voices—but weigh them by godliness, not familiarity. – Proverbs 11:14: “For lack of guidance, a nation falls, but with many counselors there is deliverance.” • Test counsel against God’s revealed will, not personal comfort. – Deuteronomy 17:18–19 required kings to copy and read the Law daily. Had Rehoboam prized that habit, his decision would have looked different. • Choose humility over power. – 1 Peter 5:5: “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” • Remember leadership is service. – Matthew 20:26: “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” • Count the long-term cost before acting. – Luke 14:28: “For which of you, wishing to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost?” Putting Wisdom Into Practice • Before big choices—career moves, financial commitments, family matters—pause for prayerful reflection on Scripture. • Invite counsel from believers known for scriptural integrity and life experience. • List potential outcomes; measure them against God’s priorities of love, justice, and humility (Micah 6:8). • Reject any advice that elevates ego or oppression. • Act only when motives, counsel, and Scripture align. An Encouraging Contrast Where Rehoboam burdened people, Jesus says, “My yoke is easy and My burden is light” (Matthew 11:30). Submitting decisions to Christ safeguards us from Rehoboam’s error and leads to rest for those affected by our choices. |
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