How can we assess our spiritual growth beyond just following commandments? Opening the Text “Teacher,” he replied, “all these I have kept from my youth.” – Mark 10:20 Observing the Conversation • The rich young ruler confidently answers Jesus, convinced that outward obedience equals maturity. • Jesus responds by exposing a deeper issue of the heart (v. 21), showing that true growth involves more than rule-keeping. • Spiritual evaluation therefore moves from external compliance to internal transformation. Beyond Checklist: Indicators of Heart-Level Growth • Growing affection for Christ – desiring His presence, Word, and glory above personal comfort (Philippians 3:8). • Increasing love for others, expressed in sacrificial service (John 13:35). • Willing surrender of treasured possessions, plans, or status when He calls (Mark 10:21). • Evident fruit of the Spirit shaping attitudes and reactions (Galatians 5:22-23). • Quick repentance and soft conscience when sin is revealed (Psalm 51:17). • Steady reliance on grace rather than personal achievement (Ephesians 2:8-9). • Enduring joy and peace under trial, rooted in trust, not circumstances (James 1:2-4). • Persistent obedience that flows from love, not fear (John 14:15). Cross-References That Illuminate the Heart • 1 Samuel 16:7 – “The LORD does not see as man does… the LORD sees the heart.” • Matthew 22:37-39 – Love for God and neighbor stands as the greatest measure. • John 15:5 – Abiding in Christ produces lasting fruit. • 1 Corinthians 13:2 – Gifts and achievements without love amount to nothing. • 2 Peter 3:18 – Growth is ongoing in “grace and knowledge” of Christ. Practical Self-Assessment • Review motives: Am I serving to be noticed, or from gratitude to the Savior? • Track fruit: Are love, joy, peace, and the rest increasingly visible to those closest to me? • Note surrender points: What have I recently laid down because Jesus asked? • Observe reactions: How do I respond when plans fail or criticism comes? • Monitor fellowship: Is time with the Lord a delight I seek or a duty I tick off? • Evaluate generosity: Does my giving reflect trust in heavenly treasure over earthly wealth? • Examine perseverance: Do trials push me toward Christ or toward self-pity? • Celebrate grace: Am I more aware of His faithfulness than of my performance? Encouragement to Keep Growing Spiritual maturity is a continuing, grace-fueled journey from external compliance to wholehearted devotion. Like the young ruler, each believer is invited beyond the checklist into deeper fellowship with the One who “looked at him and loved him.” Let His love be both the mirror that reveals the heart and the power that transforms it. |