How can we avoid selfish ambitions like James and John in Mark 10:35?

◄ Avoid selfish aims like James & John? ►

Setting the Scene

“Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to Jesus. ‘Teacher,’ they said, ‘we want You to do for us whatever we ask.’” (Mark 10:35)

Why Selfish Ambition Is a Problem

• It blinds us to the needs of others (Philippians 2:3–4).

• It breeds division and jealousy (James 3:14–16).

• It ignores Christ’s pattern of humble service (Mark 10:45).

Remember Jesus’ Definition of Greatness

• “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” (Mark 10:43)

• True greatness is measured by how much we give, not by how much we gain.

Fix Your Eyes on Christ’s Example

• “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” (Mark 10:45)

• He laid aside the glory of heaven (Philippians 2:5–8).

• Following Him means taking up our cross daily (Luke 9:23).

Practical Ways to Quench Selfish Ambition

1. Examine motives regularly. Ask: “Is this for Christ’s honor or mine?” (Psalm 139:23–24).

2. Celebrate others’ successes. Replace envy with genuine rejoicing (Romans 12:15).

3. Seek hidden acts of service. Look for tasks no one notices—folding chairs, visiting the sick, writing encouragement notes (Matthew 6:3–4).

4. Practice anonymous generosity. Give without your name attached so only the Lord knows (Matthew 6:1).

5. Anchor identity in Christ, not position. “Your life is now hidden with Christ in God.” (Colossians 3:3)

6. Submit plans to God’s will. “If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.” (James 4:15).

7. Work wholeheartedly for the Lord, not for human applause (Colossians 3:23–24).

Fruit That Replaces Selfish Ambition

• Humility that lifts others up (1 Peter 5:5–6).

• Peace instead of rivalry (James 3:18).

• Joy in serving—reflecting Jesus’ heart to a watching world (John 13:35).