Examples of "pride of life" today?
What are examples of "the pride of life" in modern society?

Setting the stage: what John means by “pride of life”

“For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh, the desires of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not from the Father but from the world.” (1 John 2:16)

John singles out “pride of life” as that inward swagger that trusts in self, status, talent, possessions, or reputation instead of in the Lord. It is a confidence that pushes God to the margins.


Classic pattern, modern clothes

Genesis 3:6 shows Eve succumbing to “desirable for gaining wisdom.” Matthew 4:8-10 reveals Satan tempting Jesus with “all the kingdoms of the world.” The pattern has never changed; only the packaging does. Today we meet the same sin in settings John could never have imagined—yet the heart issue is identical.


Spotting the pride of life in everyday culture

These examples don’t condemn every use of the items mentioned; they highlight attitudes of boastful self-reliance or superiority.

• Social-media curation

– Showcasing vacations, bodies, homes, or ministries to gain envy and applause

– Counting likes and followers as proof of personal worth

• Career and academic boasting

– Using titles, degrees, or salary to impress

– Treating the corner office or résumé as identity rather than stewardship

• Luxury branding

– Flaunting designer labels or cars to project elite status

– Equating net worth with personal value

• Competitive parenting

– Presenting children’s grades, scholarships, or spiritual achievements as extensions of ego

– Measuring success by outshining other families

• Religious one-upmanship

– Parading volunteer hours, theological knowledge, or “radical” living for admiration

Luke 18:11’s Pharisee lives on whenever worship becomes self-promotion

• Digital tribalism

– Building online tribes where political or doctrinal purity becomes a badge of supremacy

Titus 3:2 warns against maligning others; pride relishes it

• Fitness and beauty obsession

– Treating gym gains or cosmetic enhancements as a pedestal for superiority

Proverbs 31:30 reminds, “Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting”

• Tech omnipotence

– Boasting that innovation or AI will solve every problem while sidelining the Creator

James 4:13-16 rebukes planning without “if the Lord wills”


Scriptures that expose the roots

Proverbs 16:18 “Pride goes before destruction”

Isaiah 14:13-15 charts Lucifer’s fall: “I will ascend” was his anthem

1 Peter 5:5 “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble”

Jeremiah 9:23-24 “Let not the wise boast of wisdom… but let him who boasts boast in this: that he understands and knows Me”


Cultivating the opposite spirit

• Daily gratitude: 1 Thessalonians 5:18 shifts focus from self-exaltation to God’s gifts

• Hidden obedience: Matthew 6:1-4 practices giving and praying in secret

• Cross-shaped identity: Galatians 6:14 “may I never boast except in the cross”

• Serving the “least”: Mark 10:45 shows greatness defined by sacrificial service

When hearts delight in Christ, achievements and possessions become platforms for worship, not self-glory. The cure for the pride of life is a fresh vision of the One who “made Himself nothing” (Philippians 2:7)—and invites us to do the same.

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