How does Genesis 32:5 demonstrate Jacob's humility in approaching Esau? “I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, and servants. I have sent this message to inform my lord, so that I may find favor in your sight.” What’s happening in the background • Twenty years earlier Jacob had taken Esau’s birthright and blessing (Genesis 27). • Jacob fled to Haran, built a family and great wealth, and is now returning to Canaan under God’s direction (Genesis 31:3). • He hears Esau is coming with four hundred men (Genesis 32:6), so the tension is high. Words that showcase humility • “my lord” – Jacob addresses Esau with a title of respect and authority, reversing his earlier grasp for supremacy (contrast Genesis 27:29). • “your servant” (implied from Jacob’s identification) – Jacob places himself lower, acknowledging the harm he caused. • “I have sent this message” – he initiates reconciliation instead of waiting for Esau to act. • “that I may find favor” – he seeks mercy, not insisting on rights. Actions that back up the words • Listing his assets shows transparency: Jacob hides nothing, signaling he is not returning to demand anything from Esau. • The livestock become a peace offering (Genesis 32:13-20), tangible proof of contrition. • He divides his household and prays earnestly (Genesis 32:9-12), revealing dependence on God rather than self-reliance. Scriptural echoes of humility • Proverbs 15:33 — “The fear of the LORD is instruction in wisdom, and humility comes before honor.” • Philippians 2:3 — “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves.” • 1 Peter 5:5 — “All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because ‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.’” Take-home observations • Genuine humility addresses wrongs directly and seeks peace first. • Respectful language (“my lord”) softens long-standing wounds. • Openness about resources removes suspicion and shows goodwill. • Humility positions us to receive grace—from God and from those we have offended (James 4:6). |