How can our words nourish many?
How can we ensure our words "nourish many" as Proverbs 10:21 suggests?

The Meaning Behind the Verse

Proverbs 10:21 says, “The lips of the righteous feed many, but fools die for lack of judgment.” The Hebrew picture is of a shepherd providing pasture—words that supply nourishment, strength, and growth to those who hear.


Rooted in a Righteous Heart

• Righteous lips spring from a righteous heart (Luke 6:45).

• True righteousness is received, not achieved—by faith in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:21).

• Because the heart drives the tongue, daily repentance and surrender keep the “spring” pure (Psalm 51:10).


Filling the Storehouse First

• Meditate on Scripture: “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly” (Colossians 3:16).

• Pray for wisdom: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God” (James 1:5).

• Guard intake: what enters the mind will flavor what exits the mouth (Philippians 4:8).


Speaking to Edify, Not Erode

Ephesians 4:29 provides the template:

– Speak only what is “helpful for building up.”

– Fit words to the moment’s need.

– Aim that listeners “receive grace.”

Other guiding texts

Proverbs 15:23 – timely word brings joy.

Colossians 4:6 – speech seasoned with salt.

1 Thessalonians 5:11 – encourage and build one another up.


Practical Habits That Shape Nourishing Words

• Pause before speaking—quick to hear, slow to speak (James 1:19).

• Replace complaints with thanksgiving (Ephesians 5:4).

• Use names; they dignify the listener (Isaiah 43:1).

• Offer Scripture naturally: share a verse, not a lecture.

• Affirm evidences of grace you see in others (Philemon 7).

• Keep confidences—trust makes truth digestible (Proverbs 11:13).

• Apologize promptly when words wound (Matthew 5:23-24).


Guardrails Against Harmful Speech

• Reject gossip (Proverbs 16:28).

• Shun exaggeration and flattery (Proverbs 26:28).

• Refuse coarse joking (Ephesians 5:4).

• Never weaponize truth; speak it in love (Ephesians 4:15).


Extending the Table—Nourishing “Many”

• Home: read aloud, bless at meals, speak Scripture over children (Deuteronomy 6:6-7).

• Workplace: encourage diligence, commend integrity (Proverbs 27:17).

• Church: greet newcomers, share testimonies, pray out loud for others (Hebrews 10:24-25).

• Community: online posts, letters, texts—let digital words carry the same flavor of grace (Proverbs 12:18).


The Promise to Hold

When lips align with righteousness, God multiplies their impact: “A generous person will be enriched, and the one who gives a drink of water will receive water” (Proverbs 11:25). Speak to feed, and the Shepherd will ensure many are nourished—often far beyond what we can see.

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