In what ways can we align our "lips" with godly wisdom? Key Verse “ When words are many, sin is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise.” — Proverbs 10:19 Why the Lips Matter • Our lips broadcast what fills the heart (Luke 6:45). • Words carry life or death (Proverbs 18:21). • The Lord will judge every careless word (Matthew 12:36). Understanding “Restrain” in Proverbs 10:19 • Literally: hold back, keep in check, set a guard (Psalm 141:3). • Purpose: prevent sin’s overflow, reflect God’s character, preserve life (Proverbs 13:3). Practical Ways to Align Our Lips with Godly Wisdom 1. Slow the Pace • “Quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19). • Pause before responding; silence can be strength (Proverbs 17:28). 2. Filter Words Through Scripture • Let Colossians 4:6 shape tone: “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt.” • Ask, “Does this align with truth?” (Ephesians 4:25). 3. Speak to Build, Not Break • “The tongue of the wise brings healing” (Proverbs 12:18). • Encourage, affirm, and correct with gentleness (Ephesians 4:29). 4. Cultivate Honesty • “Lying lips are detestable to the LORD” (Proverbs 12:22). • Choose transparent integrity over flattery or half-truths. 5. Maintain a Grateful Vocabulary • “Give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). • Gratitude repels grumbling (Philippians 2:14). 6. Guard Against Gossip and Slander • “He who repeats a matter separates close friends” (Proverbs 17:9). • Refuse to pass along unverified or damaging information (Leviticus 19:16). 7. Use Words for Intercession • Pray for others rather than talk about them (1 Timothy 2:1). • Bless those who wrong you (Romans 12:14). 8. Invite Accountability • Welcome a faithful friend’s rebuke (Proverbs 27:6). • Submit words to wise counsel (Proverbs 11:14). Fruits of Wise Lips • Personal preservation and peace (Proverbs 21:23). • Increased influence and credibility (Proverbs 16:21). • Edification of the body of Christ (Ephesians 4:16). • A witness that directs others to the Savior (Colossians 3:17). Closing Reflection “May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in Your sight, O LORD, my rock and my Redeemer.” — Psalm 19:14 |
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