In what ways can we practice wisdom in our speech today? Anchoring Our Study in Ecclesiastes 10:14 “Yet the fool multiplies words; no man knows what will happen, and who can tell him what is to come?” What the Verse Teaches • The fool’s problem is not only volume but presumption—he speaks as though he controls tomorrow. • Wisdom begins with recognizing our limited knowledge and the unlimited sovereignty of God (cf. Proverbs 19:21). Core Principles for Wise Speech • Restraint: “When words are many, sin is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise” (Proverbs 10:19). • Humility: “You do not even know what will happen tomorrow” (James 4:14). • Truthfulness: “Speak the truth each one to his neighbor” (Ephesians 4:25). • Edification: “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up” (Ephesians 4:29). • Accountability: “For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned” (Matthew 12:37). Practical Ways to Practice Wisdom in Speech Today • Pause before you post or speak—count to ten, pray, and ask if the remark is necessary. • Limit speculative statements about the future; replace them with, “If the Lord wills” (James 4:15). • Use fewer words and aim for clarity; avoid filler and exaggeration. • Choose edifying topics—praise, gratitude, and testimonies of God’s faithfulness. • Redirect gossip by changing the subject or speaking well of the person discussed (Proverbs 26:20). • Commit to daily Scripture saturation; speak God’s promises more than personal opinions (Joshua 1:8). • Embrace gentle answers to defuse tension (Proverbs 15:1). • In digital communication, read your message aloud before sending; ask if it reflects the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). Guardrails from Other Passages • Proverbs 18:21—“Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” • Colossians 4:6—“Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt.” • Philippians 2:14—“Do everything without complaining or arguing.” Living It Out Wise speech flows from a heart submitted to the Lord’s authority, aware of human limitations, and eager to build others up. By speaking less, listening more, and aligning every word with biblical truth, we honor God and bless those around us. |
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