What does Jesus' question in John 11:34 teach about seeking understanding before acting? Setting the scene John 11 finds Mary and Martha grieving Lazarus’ death. When Jesus arrives at the tomb, “He asked, ‘Where have you laid him?’ ‘Come and see, Lord,’ they answered” (John 11:34). The all-knowing Savior pauses to ask a question before He performs His greatest miracle yet. Why did Jesus ask? • He invites the mourners to voice their experience. • He identifies with their sorrow by listening first (cf. Hebrews 4:15). • He demonstrates that divine power never bypasses human participation. • He models deliberate inquiry before decisive action. Seeking understanding before acting—Biblical principles • Listening precedes speaking: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger” (James 1:19). • Acting without facts leads to folly: “He who answers before listening—that is his folly and his shame” (Proverbs 18:13). • God often asks questions to draw people out—“Where are you?” (Genesis 3:9); “What is that in your hand?” (Exodus 4:2); “Who touched My garments?” (Mark 5:30). • Questions reveal relationship. Jesus’ question affirms the value of those mourning; their response becomes the pathway to the miracle. What we learn from Jesus’ example • Ask before you act—even when you think you know. • Enter another’s pain through genuine curiosity; understanding deepens compassion (Romans 12:15). • Involve others in God’s work. Jesus’ question leads the people to roll away the stone (John 11:39). • Trust that gathering information is not weakness but wisdom (Proverbs 15:22). Practical steps 1. Pause and inquire—cultivate a patient heart that gathers the whole story. 2. Listen actively—confirm details, emotions, and unspoken concerns. 3. Respond with informed action—let truth guide your decisions. 4. Invite collaboration—ask questions that draw others into God’s redemptive plan. Conclusion Jesus’ brief question at Lazarus’ tomb shows that seeking understanding is an act of love, a display of humility, and a prerequisite for effective ministry. Follow His pattern: ask, listen, then act—so that your actions, like His, bring life where there is loss. |