How can seeking counsel before decisions reflect biblical wisdom in our lives? Opening the Text “Rehoboam answered, ‘Come back to me in three days.’ So the people departed.” (2 Chronicles 10:5) The Wisdom Behind “Come Back to Me in Three Days” Rehoboam’s pause wasn’t random; it shows how seeking input before acting can align us with God’s design for decision-making. • Time to inquire of the LORD (cf. 1 Samuel 23:2) • Space to weigh different voices (elders vs. peers, vv. 6–8) • Opportunity for humility—recognizing we don’t know everything (Proverbs 3:5-6) Scriptural Chorus on Counsel God repeats the principle across His Word, underscoring its literal relevance for every generation: • “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.” (Proverbs 11:14) • “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” (Proverbs 15:22) • “Surely you need guidance to wage war, and victory is won through many advisors.” (Proverbs 24:6) • The Jerusalem church gathered, debated, and reached consensus under Scripture’s authority (Acts 15:6-22). • Paul sought counsel from established leaders to confirm his gospel labor (Galatians 2:1-2). What Godly Counsel Looks Like 1. Anchored in Scripture—never contradicts God’s Word (Psalm 119:105). 2. Marked by purity, peace, and mercy (James 3:17). 3. Offered by the mature, not the merely agreeable (Hebrews 13:7). 4. Confirmed by prayer and the Spirit’s inner witness (John 16:13). 5. Transparent and honest, even when uncomfortable (Proverbs 27:6). The Pitfall of Ignoring Wise Voices Rehoboam ultimately rejected the elders’ advice (2 Chronicles 10:13-15), splitting the kingdom. Scripture records this real historical consequence to warn us: • Pride blinds (Proverbs 16:18). • Echo chambers flatter but mislead (2 Timothy 4:3-4). • Disregarding godly counsel can derail families, churches, and nations. Practical Ways to Seek Counsel Today • Pause—commit to never making major decisions on impulse. • Pray—ask God to guide to the right voices (Jeremiah 33:3). • Prioritize Scripture—measure every suggestion by the written Word. • Pursue elders—find believers proven by time and obedience. • Compare perspectives—look for consistent themes rather than one isolated opinion. • Protect unity—invite counsel early enough to shape, not rubber-stamp, plans. • Proceed in faith—once counsel aligns with Scripture, act decisively (James 1:22-25). The Blessings That Follow • Clarity—God “gives wisdom to the wise” (Daniel 2:21). • Safety—counsel shields from unseen traps. • Humility—submitting to advice forms Christlike character (Philippians 2:3-5). • Community—shared input knits believers together (Ephesians 4:16). • Fruitfulness—wise decisions bear lasting, God-honoring results (John 15:8). Seeking counsel before decisions isn’t just good practice; it is living out the literal wisdom God has woven into His Word. |
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