How to apply Proverbs 3:35 in decisions?
In what ways can we apply Proverbs 3:35 to our decision-making process?

The Verse at a Glance

“The wise will inherit honor, but fools are held up to shame.” (Proverbs 3:35)


Honor and Shame: God’s Clear Outcomes

• In God’s economy, wisdom is always rewarded with honor.

• Folly inevitably exposes a person to shame—both before people and before the Lord (Proverbs 13:18).

• Every decision therefore carries a built-in trajectory: honor or disgrace.


Practical Lens for Everyday Choices

When a fork in the road appears, place Proverbs 3:35 over the decision like a transparency:

• Will this choice showcase godly wisdom?

• Could it drag the name of Christ—or my own—into shame?

• Does it position me to “inherit” lasting respect, or to reap regret later?

Let that simple test sift options quickly.


Four Filters for Wise Decisions

1. Scripture’s Light

– “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” (Psalm 119:105)

– A wise decision never contradicts the clear teaching of Scripture.

2. Prayer for Insight

– “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously… and it will be given to him.” (James 1:5)

– Bring the matter before God; He delights to guide.

3. Counsel of the God-fearing

– “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” (Proverbs 15:22)

– Seek input from mature believers whose lives already bear the fruit of wisdom.

4. Long-Range Consequences

– “The prudent see danger and take cover, but the simple keep going and suffer the consequences.” (Proverbs 22:3)

– Ask, “Where will this lead in five, ten, thirty years? Will honor or shame be the likely harvest?”


Guardrails Against Folly

• Reject impulsiveness—pause long enough for prayer and Scripture search.

• Beware the crowd—majority opinion often flatters folly (Exodus 23:2).

• Silence pride—“When pride comes, disgrace follows, but with humility comes wisdom.” (Proverbs 11:2)

• Filter media and influences that normalize sin and ridicule godliness.


Cultivating a Heart That Attracts Honor

• Daily reverence for the Lord (Proverbs 9:10).

• Regular intake of God’s Word (Joshua 1:8).

• Quick obedience to revealed truth (John 14:21).

• Humble teachability—willingness to be corrected (Proverbs 12:1).

• Consistent confession and repentance to keep the conscience clear (1 John 1:9).


Walking It Out Today

• Begin the day committing your choices to God.

• Run decisions—big or small—through the four filters.

• Choose the path that best aligns with Scripture and invites honor.

• Trust that God will fulfill His promise: wisdom today, honor tomorrow.

How does Proverbs 3:35 connect with the teachings of Jesus in Matthew 5:16?
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