In what ways can we show appreciation to spiritual mentors in our lives? Meeting Rufus and His Mother “Greet Rufus, chosen in the Lord, and his mother, who has been a mother to me as well.” – Romans 16:13 Paul pauses amid a list of names to highlight a mentor’s loving support. By calling Rufus’s mother his own, he models heartfelt appreciation for those who nurture us in Christ. Why Appreciation Matters • Scripture commands honor for spiritual leaders (1 Thessalonians 5:12-13; Hebrews 13:7). • Gratitude refreshes weary servants (2 Timothy 1:16-18). • Public thanks inspires others to serve (Philippians 2:29-30). Practical Ways to Honor Spiritual Mentors 1. Verbal Thanks • Speak sincere words of gratitude (Proverbs 16:24). • Share testimonies of growth they fostered (3 John 4). 2. Tangible Support • Provide meals, help with projects, or financial gifts (Galatians 6:6; Philippians 4:14-18). • Offer professional skills—tech help, child-care, transportation. 3. Respectful Cooperation • Listen and apply their teaching (Hebrews 13:17). • Protect their reputation by refusing gossip (Proverbs 17:9). 4. Prayer Covering • Intercede regularly for strength, health, and wisdom (Ephesians 6:19). • Let them know you’re praying; it lifts heavy hearts. 5. Shared Ministry • Volunteer alongside them (Philippians 1:5). • Invite others to join, expanding their influence. 6. Written Encouragement • Send handwritten notes, emails, or texts outlining specific blessings (Acts 15:23, 31). • Remember anniversaries of key milestones—ordination, church plants, missions trips. 7. Hospitality and Fellowship • Open your home for a meal or restful getaway (Romans 12:13). • Celebrate holidays or achievements together, like family. 8. Faithful Living • The highest compliment is growth into mature disciples (Philippians 4:9). • Pass their investment forward by mentoring someone else (2 Timothy 2:2). Living Out the Lesson Today Paul’s salute to Rufus’s mother reminds us that appreciation is both personal and public. Whether through kind words, prayer, practical gifts, or a life well-lived, honoring those who have mothered us in the faith glorifies God and strengthens His church. |
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