What practical steps help us follow Jesus as described in Luke 14:25-26? The Call Above All Others “Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and He turned and said to them, ‘If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—he cannot be My disciple.’” (Luke 14:25-26) Understanding the Strong Language • In Semitic speech, “hate” contrasts loyalties. Jesus demands that our allegiance to Him so outweigh every other attachment that, by comparison, all other loves look like hate (cf. Matthew 10:37). • The verse is literal: Christ’s claim on us is absolute. He permits no rival throne in the heart. Practical Steps to Live It Out • Examine loyalties regularly – Ask, “What claim comes first in my schedule, wallet, and decisions—family, self, or Christ?” – When a conflict arises, choose obedience to Jesus even if misunderstood (Acts 5:29). • Relocate identity in Christ – Spend daily time in the Word to renew thinking (Romans 12:2). – Affirm aloud: “I belong to Jesus above all” (Galatians 2:20). • Hold relationships with open hands – Love family deeply yet release the right to please them above Christ (Ephesians 6:1-4; 5:25). – Pray for courage to obey when discipleship strains earthly ties (2 Timothy 3:12). • Die to self-interest – Fast from a comfort, social media platform, or hobby so the flesh learns submission (1 Corinthians 9:27). – Practice generous giving that pinches, reminding the heart whose kingdom matters (2 Corinthians 9:7-8). • Embrace daily cross-bearing habits – Start mornings by yielding the day: “Whatever You say, Lord, I’ll do” (Luke 9:23). – Keep short accounts with sin; confess quickly and move on in obedience (1 John 1:9). • Seek accountable fellowship – Join a Bible-centred small group where others will ask how Christ remains first (Hebrews 10:24-25). – Share testimonies of surrendered choices; mutual encouragement cements resolve (Revelation 12:11). Scripture to Strengthen Resolve • Philippians 3:7-8 — “But whatever was gain to me I count as loss for the sake of Christ.” • Colossians 3:2 — “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” • John 12:25 — “Whoever loves his life will lose it, but whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.” Counting the Cost Daily Following Jesus per Luke 14:25-26 is not a one-time decision but an ongoing, practical surrender of every competing affection. When His glory shapes priorities, relationships, and self-image, we live as true disciples—and discover the deeper joy He promises (John 15:11). |