How to honor Him as our Lord today?
How can we apply "honor Him, for He is your Lord" today?

Setting the Scene—Psalm 45:11

“Then the King will desire your beauty; bow to Him, for He is your Lord.”


What “Honor” Meant Then, What It Means Now

• In the psalm’s original royal wedding setting, the bride’s bow signified wholehearted allegiance to her king-husband.

• Prophetically, the verse points to Christ as the divine Bridegroom (Ephesians 5:25-27; Revelation 19:7-9).

• Therefore, honoring Him today means responding with the same whole-life devotion the bride showed—only now our King is the risen Lord Jesus.


Practical Ways to “Honor Him” Today

1. Prioritize His Voice

• Daily Scripture intake: treat His Word as the ultimate authority (2 Timothy 3:16).

• Quick obedience: move from hearing to doing (James 1:22).

2. Guard Spiritual Affections

• Worship privately and publicly; sing to Him, speak well of Him (Psalm 29:2; Hebrews 13:15).

• Reject competing “lords” (career, entertainment, relationships) that try to steal first place (Matthew 6:24).

3. Showcase His Beauty in Conduct

• Reflect His character—truth, grace, purity—in everyday choices (1 Peter 2:12).

• Honor Him with the body: moral purity, modesty, health stewardship (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).

4. Steward Resources for His Kingdom

• Finances: first-fruits giving (Proverbs 3:9).

• Time and talents: serve the body of Christ and the needy (1 Peter 4:10).

5. Confess Him Publicly

• Speak of Him naturally in conversation (Romans 10:9-10).

• Identify openly with His people, even when unpopular (Mark 8:38).

6. Submit All Plans to His Lordship

• Hold goals loosely; invite His direction (Proverbs 16:9).

• Accept His “no” or “wait” as lovingly wise (Romans 8:28).


Motivations That Fuel Our Honor

• He is worthy: “Worthy is the Lamb who was slain” (Revelation 5:12).

• He loved us first: our devotion is a response, not a negotiation (1 John 4:19).

• Our lives preach: honoring Him draws others to His beauty (Matthew 5:16).


A Daily Heart Check

Ask:

• Does this decision place Christ foremost?

• Would this action make sense if He were visibly present right now?

• Am I honoring Him with joyful willingness, not grudging duty?

Returning again and again to Psalm 45:11 keeps the focus clear: “Honor Him, for He is your Lord.”

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