How to prevent a "poor heart"?
In what ways can we avoid the "poor heart" mentioned in Proverbs 10:20?

The “poor heart” in Proverbs 10:20

“The tongue of the righteous is choice silver, but the heart of the wicked has little worth.” (Proverbs 10:20)

• “Little worth” points to a spiritually impoverished heart—empty of truth, dull to God, quick to sin.

• The contrast with “choice silver” shows that a godly heart is to be valued and diligently pursued.


God’s first remedy: a new heart

• “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you.” (Ezekiel 36:26)

• New birth through faith in Christ (John 3:3) replaces the old, stone-cold heart with one that delights in God’s ways.


Guard the heart above all else

“Guard your heart with all diligence, for from it flow springs of life.” (Proverbs 4:23)

Practical steps:

1. Filter input

– Choose media and conversations that honor Christ (Philippians 4:8).

2. Watch the tongue

– Speech reveals heart health (Luke 6:45; Proverbs 15:1).

3. Reject hidden sin immediately

– “If we confess our sins, He is faithful.” (1 John 1:9)


Feed the heart with Scripture

• “I have hidden Your word in my heart that I might not sin against You.” (Psalm 119:11)

Daily rhythm:

– Read: steady, unhurried intake.

– Meditate: ponder, personalize, pray back the text.

– Apply: one concrete obedience each day (James 1:22).


Keep the heart soft through humble fellowship

• “Encourage one another daily… so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.” (Hebrews 3:13)

Keys:

– Commit to a local body of believers.

– Welcome correction; it is “choice silver” refining the inner life (Proverbs 27:6).


Exercise generous love

• “A generous soul will prosper, and he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.” (Proverbs 11:25)

Ways generosity enriches the heart:

– Time: serve someone with no expectation of return.

– Resources: give quietly to a need (Matthew 6:3-4).

– Words: speak edifying truth that builds up (Ephesians 4:29).


Cultivate gratitude and contentment

• “Godliness with contentment is great gain.” (1 Timothy 6:6)

• Thankfulness displaces envy, a chief cause of heart-poverty (James 3:14-16).


Stay alert to warning lights

• Bitterness lodging in thoughts (Hebrews 12:15).

• Cynical or cutting humor (Ephesians 5:4).

• Diminished appetite for God’s Word and prayer (Revelation 2:4).

When these surface, repent quickly and realign with truth.


Promises for the well-kept heart

• Peace that “surpasses all understanding” (Philippians 4:7).

• Wisdom “better than jewels” (Proverbs 8:11).

• Enduring fruit that glorifies the Father (John 15:5, 8).

Choose today to value the heart as God does, pursue the practices He prescribes, and enjoy the richness He delights to give.

How does Proverbs 10:20 connect with James 3:5-6 on controlling the tongue?
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