What can we learn about Jesus' relationships from John 11:1? The Verse in Focus “Now a man named Lazarus was sick. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha.” (John 11:1) Personal Names, Personal Care • John lists all three siblings by name. • Scripture consistently shows Jesus addressing people personally (John 20:16; Luke 19:5). • Knowing and using names underscores individual worth in God’s sight (Isaiah 43:1). Friendship That Transcends Circumstances • The verse opens with Lazarus’ illness, yet the relationship is emphasized before the crisis. • Jesus’ friendships remain steady whether friends are healthy, sick, or even dead (John 11:3–6, 43–44). • Proverbs 17:17—“A friend loves at all times”—is modeled perfectly by Christ. Honoring Women in His Inner Circle • Mary and Martha are mentioned alongside Lazarus without apology or cultural reservation. • Jesus often receives ministry from, teaches, and commissions women (Luke 10:38–42; John 20:17). • Galatians 3:28 affirms equal value; John 11:1 gives a lived example. Family Units Matter to Jesus • The siblings are treated as a household Jesus cherishes (John 11:5). • He recognizes family bonds and works within them, never dismissing earthly relationships (Mark 5:19). • His ministry strengthens, rather than undermines, family ties (Ephesians 6:1–4). Love That Moves Toward Need • “Lazarus was sick” signals impending action; Jesus will soon travel to Bethany (John 11:7). • Divine love is not passive—Christ enters suffering situations (Hebrews 4:15–16). • His arrival will bring both comfort and resurrection power (John 11:25–26). Relational Geography—Bethany • Bethany sits about two miles from Jerusalem, a place of frequent refuge for Jesus (Matthew 21:17). • He embeds Himself in ordinary villages, proving no place is too small for His presence. • Acts 1:12 shows Bethany remaining significant even after the Ascension. Takeaways for Today • Use people’s names; affirm their God-given identity. • Cultivate friendships that endure hardship, reflecting Christ’s steadfast love. • Honor and include women as Jesus did. • Value family relationships; minister within them. • Let love propel you toward those who are hurting, just as Jesus went to Bethany. |
    |