What can we learn about forgiveness from Stephen's example in Acts 7:60? Setting the Scene in Acts 7:60 “Falling on his knees, he cried out in a loud voice, ‘Lord, do not hold this sin against them.’ And when he had said this, he fell asleep.” Stephen’s Choice to Forgive • In the very act of being stoned, Stephen consciously releases his attackers from guilt. • He mirrors the Savior’s own petition on the cross: “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34). • His final words reveal that forgiveness is not a sentimental afterthought but a deliberate, Spirit-empowered decision. (Acts 7:55–56 shows Stephen “full of the Holy Spirit.”) Lessons We Can Apply • Forgiveness is proactive. Stephen prays before his death; he refuses to let bitterness settle even for a moment. • Forgiveness is intercessory. He asks God to withhold judgment, placing offenders in God’s hands, not his own. • Forgiveness is unconditional. There is no apology or repentance from the mob, yet Stephen forgives. • Forgiveness is possible under extreme injustice. Physical pain and public humiliation do not override the command to forgive. • Forgiveness reflects Christ’s character. To forgive as Stephen forgave is to display Jesus to a hostile world (John 13:34–35). • Forgiveness frees the forgiven and the forgiver. Stephen’s peaceful “falling asleep” shows a conscience unchained by resentment. Supporting Scriptures on Forgiveness • Matthew 5:44 — “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” • Ephesians 4:32 — “Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.” • Colossians 3:13 — “Bear with one another and forgive any complaint you may have against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” • Romans 12:19 — “Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but leave room for God’s wrath.” Courageous Forgiveness in Daily Life • Ask the Holy Spirit for a heart like Stephen’s, ready to release offenses quickly. • Replace retaliation with intercession; pray for those who wound you. • Keep Christ’s example front and center. The cross fuels the courage to forgive. • Trust God’s justice. Rest in His promise that He alone “will repay” (Romans 12:19). • Remember eternity. Like Stephen, believers can face any injustice with confidence that ultimate vindication lies ahead. |
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