Lessons on humility from Abraham's visit.
What can we learn about humility from Abraham's address to the visitors?

Setting the Scene

Abraham is a wealthy herdsman, the covenant friend of God, and the patriarch through whom all nations will be blessed—yet when three travelers appear, he runs to meet them, bows low, and speaks the words of Genesis 18:3.


Verse at the Center

“ ‘My lord, if I have found favor in your sight, please do not pass your servant by.’ ” (Genesis 18:3)


What Humility Looks Like in Abraham

• Self-identification as a servant

 – Despite his status, Abraham uses the lowliest title for himself.

 – Humility begins with an accurate view of who God is and who we are (cf. Psalm 8:4).

• Seeking favor, not presuming it

 – He asks, “if I have found favor,” showing dependence on God’s grace rather than entitlement (cf. Luke 18:13).

• Eager hospitality

 – He pleads, “do not pass by,” anxious to serve. True humility gladly expends itself for others (Hebrews 13:2).

• Immediate action

 – Verses 6-8 record Abraham hurrying multiple times. Humility is quick to obey and quick to serve (James 2:17).

• Costly generosity

 – He offers choice flour, a tender calf, and personal attention. Humility holds possessions loosely (Proverbs 11:25).


Scripture Echoes of the Same Heart

Philippians 2:3-8 — Christ “emptied Himself” and “took the form of a servant.”

1 Peter 5:5-6 — “Clothe yourselves with humility… so that He may exalt you at the proper time.”

James 4:6 — “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”

John 13:3-5 — Jesus washes the disciples’ feet, modeling servant leadership.

Luke 14:11 — “Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”


Why This Matters for Us

• Humility invites divine fellowship. Abraham’s lowliness opens the door to a life-changing encounter.

• Humility expresses itself in practical service, not mere words.

• Humility does not depend on poverty or wealth; it is a heart posture available to every believer.

• Humility positions us to receive revelation. It is after Abraham’s humble welcome that God reveals the promised son (Genesis 18:10).

• Humility today still blesses strangers, and heaven often meets us in ordinary acts of hospitality.


Living It Out

• Begin each day acknowledging God’s greatness and your role as His servant.

• Look for “interruptions” as potential divine appointments rather than inconveniences.

• Practice quick, generous hospitality—share time, resources, and attention without waiting to be asked.

• Watch your speech: replace entitlement (“I deserve…”) with gratitude (“If I have found favor…”).

• Measure success not by status but by faithful service rendered in Jesus’ name.

In Abraham’s simple address—“please do not pass your servant by”—we glimpse a timeless, God-honoring humility that still beckons us today.

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