What can we learn about loyalty from Absalom's actions in this passage? A Snapshot of the Moment “ So Absalom said to Hushai, ‘Is this your loyalty to your friend? Why did you not go with your friend?’ ” (2 Samuel 16:17) Absalom’s Skewed Standard • Absalom has just usurped the throne; yet he dares to question someone else’s faithfulness. • His words imply loyalty is measured by outward alignment with the newest power—himself. • He demands what he is unwilling to give: fidelity to the anointed king, David (cf. 2 Samuel 15:4-6). What Absalom Teaches Us About False Loyalty • Self-interest masquerades as allegiance. – Absalom’s “loyalty” flexes whenever it profits him (James 1:8). • Image matters more than integrity. – He wants Hushai’s presence to legitimize his coup (John 12:43). • Words without submission are empty. – Proverbs 20:6: “Many a man proclaims his loving devotion, but who can find a trustworthy man?” • Disloyalty to God’s appointed authority equals disloyalty to God Himself (Romans 13:1). Marks of True Loyalty • Anchored first to the Lord and His Word (Deuteronomy 6:5). • Consistent in adversity—“A friend loves at all times” (Proverbs 17:17). • Sacrificial, not self-preserving—“Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13). • Acts, not merely speaks—David’s refusal to harm Saul (1 Samuel 24:5-6) contrasts Absalom’s betrayal. Hushai: A Contrast Worth Noting • Hushai stays loyal to David while posing as a servant of Absalom (2 Samuel 16:18-19). • His risky obedience protects the rightful king and ultimately the nation (2 Samuel 17:14). • Lesson: loyalty may require wise strategy, courage, and patience. Looking Ahead to the Perfect King • Earthly leaders can be treacherous, but Christ remains utterly faithful (Hebrews 13:8). • True loyalty finds its fullest expression in wholehearted devotion to Him—“No servant can serve two masters” (Luke 16:13). |
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