How does Mark 7:11 challenge us to honor our parents today? Setting the Scene Mark 7 records a clash between Jesus and the Pharisees over human tradition versus God’s command. In verse 11 He says: “But you say, ‘If a man says to his father or mother, “Whatever you would have received from me is Corban (that is, devoted to God),”’”. The religious leaders had invented a loophole—declaring money or property “Corban” so it could no longer be used to support aging parents. Jesus exposes this as a violation of the fifth commandment. What “Corban” Meant • A formal vow that set aside assets as a gift for the temple. • The giver could still benefit from those assets while alive. • Parents in need were left without help, all under a veneer of piety. • Jesus calls it a tradition that “nullif[ies] the word of God” (Mark 7:13). Timeless Principle: God’s Command Overrules Human Tradition • Exodus 20:12: “Honor your father and mother…” • Ephesians 6:2-3 repeats the same command with a promise. • Any custom, cultural value, personal preference, or even church rule that contradicts Scripture must give way to Scripture—in this case, the clear call to honor and care for parents. How Mark 7:11 Challenges Us Today 1. Reject loopholes that excuse neglect. – Modern “Corban” can look like busy schedules, career goals, or financial plans that leave parents uncared-for. 2. Remember honor is practical, not merely polite words. – 1 Timothy 5:8: “If anyone does not provide for his relatives… he has denied the faith…” 3. Discern between generosity to ministries and responsibility to family. – Giving to church and missions is vital (2 Corinthians 9:7), but never at the expense of basic obligations to parents. 4. Keep motives pure. – The Pharisees loved religious reputation; Jesus prized genuine love (1 John 3:17). 5. Let Scripture set priorities, not culture. – Cultures may idolize independence or dismiss the elderly; the Word calls believers to inter-generational commitment. Practical Ways to Honor Parents • Provide Material Support – Food, housing, medical bills, transportation. • Show Consistent Presence – Call, visit, include them in family life. • Offer Respectful Speech – Proverbs 23:22: “Do not despise your mother when she is old.” • Seek Their Wisdom – Ask advice; value their experience. • Protect Their Dignity – Advocate for them in healthcare, finances, and legal matters. • Pray For and With Them – Uphold them spiritually even if they are not believers. • Share the Gospel and God’s Promises – The greatest honor is pointing them to eternal hope in Christ. When Honoring Is Hard • Difficult Histories: Forgive as Christ forgave (Colossians 3:13) while still pursuing appropriate care. • Distance or Limited Resources: Enlist siblings, church family, community programs; be creative and intentional. • Parents Who Resist Help: Maintain a gentle, patient posture (1 Peter 5:5); honor does not always equal agreement, but it always includes love. A Final Encouragement Jesus’ rebuke in Mark 7:11 reminds believers that honoring parents is not a sentimental option but a divine mandate. As we obey, we reflect the heart of the Son who “went down with [His parents] and was submissive to them” (Luke 2:51). In caring for our fathers and mothers, we declare that God’s Word still governs every area of life—family, finances, and faith alike. |
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