Paul's concession: impact on Christians?
What implications does Paul's "concession, not a command" have for Christian living?

Setting the Scene

1 Corinthians 7 opens with questions the Corinthian church asked about marriage, singleness, and sexual morality.

• Verse 6 sits between Paul’s call for spouses to fulfill marital duties (vv. 3-5) and his personal wish that more believers could remain single (v 7).

• “I say this as a concession, not as a command.” (1 Corinthians 7:6)


What Does Paul Mean by “Concession”?

• Concession = Spirit-inspired permission. Paul allows something without requiring it.

• Command = binding obligation from God that every believer must obey.

• By labeling his counsel a concession, Paul distinguishes between:

– Universal moral imperatives (e.g., “Flee sexual immorality,” 1 Corinthians 6:18)

– Pastoral advice tailored to circumstances (e.g., temporary abstinence for prayer, 7:5)


Key Implications for Christian Living

Freedom within Faithfulness

• Christ’s lordship remains supreme, yet within His boundaries He grants real choices.

• Accept marriage or singleness as legitimate paths (1 Corinthians 7:7; Matthew 19:11-12).

• Do not elevate personal preference to divine statute (Romans 14:4; Colossians 2:16-17).

Recognition of Diverse Gifts

• “Each has his own gift from God” (1 Corinthians 7:7).

• Celibacy is a gift for some; marriage is a gift for others (Genesis 2:18; Hebrews 13:4).

• Celebrate variety in the body rather than pressuring believers into uniformity (1 Peter 4:10).

Pastoral Sensitivity

• Leaders may give counsel shaped by context—yet always under Scripture’s authority (Acts 15:28-29).

• Encourage self-control and prayer without binding consciences where God does not (1 Timothy 4:1-5).

Guardrails against Legalism

• Distinguish “must” from “may” to avoid adding burdens (Galatians 5:1).

• When Scripture offers liberty, receive it with gratitude, not suspicion (1 Corinthians 10:29-30).

Guardrails against License

• A concession is still holy counsel. Ignoring it invites temptation (1 Corinthians 7:5).

• Use freedom to serve, not indulge the flesh (Galatians 5:13).

Call to Discernment

• Seek the Spirit’s wisdom for personal application (James 1:5).

• Factors to weigh:

– Spiritual devotion (time for prayer, ministry)

– Self-control level

– Partner’s needs and agreement

– Kingdom effectiveness (1 Corinthians 7:32-35)


Balancing Freedom and Faithfulness

• Commands anchor us; concessions flex with us.

• Both stem from God’s love: commands protect, concessions accommodate weakness and opportunity.

• Keep the cross at the center—whether single or married, live “for the Lord” (Romans 14:8).


Walking It Out

• Thank God for clear commands that keep you safe.

• Thank Him equally for gracious concessions that honor individuality.

• In every choice, aim for holiness, love, and the advancement of the gospel (Philippians 1:9-11).

How does 1 Corinthians 7:6 distinguish between command and personal advice from Paul?
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