What qualities in Esther 2:9 can we emulate to gain favor with others? The Verse in Focus “Esther pleased him and obtained his favor. So he promptly provided her with beauty treatments and special food. He assigned to her seven choice maids from the king’s palace and transferred her and her maids to the best quarters in the harem.” (Esther 2:9) Traits That Shone Through Esther • Pleasant spirit—her demeanor “pleased” Hegai, drawing goodwill. • Winsome humility—no hint of pride; humility invites help (1 Peter 5:5). • Respect for authority—she honored the eunuch’s position (Romans 13:7). • Teachability—she accepted counsel and preparation (Proverbs 19:20). • Discipline in self-presentation—she stewarded her appearance without vanity (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). • Gratitude—receiving special care without entitlement (Colossians 3:15). Other Lives, Same Lesson • Joseph—favor through integrity (Genesis 39:3-4). • Samuel—favor with God and people (1 Samuel 2:26). • Jesus—grew in favor as He matured (Luke 2:52). Practical Steps for Today 1. Cultivate a cheerful countenance—smile, listen well (Proverbs 15:23). 2. Serve humbly—lighten others’ loads (Galatians 5:13). 3. Honor authority—follow instructions respectfully (Colossians 3:22-24). 4. Stay teachable—seek feedback, adjust quickly (Proverbs 9:9). 5. Present yourself neatly and modestly (1 Timothy 2:9-10). 6. Express gratitude—thank people specifically (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Why Favor Matters “Let love and faithfulness never leave you… Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man.” (Proverbs 3:3-4) Favor is the natural fruit of godly character shining through everyday interactions, just as it did for Esther in Susa’s palace. |
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