Seeking God's forgiveness for infidelity?
How can we seek God's forgiveness for unfaithfulness as seen in Ezekiel 16:28?

Context: Israel’s Unfaithfulness Exposed

“ ‘You engaged in prostitution with the Assyrians because you were insatiable; even after that, you were still not satisfied.’ ” (Ezekiel 16:28)

• God pictures Judah’s alliances with Assyria as spiritual adultery—running to human powers instead of trusting the LORD.

• The charge is not ignorance but persistent restlessness: “still not satisfied.” Unfaithfulness keeps grasping for substitutes that never fulfill.


What Unfaithfulness Looks Like Today

• Compromising convictions to gain approval, security, or pleasure

• Trusting wealth, relationships, or government more than God’s promises

• Mixing biblical faith with cultural idols—self-promotion, sexual immorality, entertainment obsession

• Habitual sins we excuse because “everyone does it”


Steps to Seeking God’s Forgiveness

1. Admit the specific sin

• “For my iniquities have flooded over my head” (Psalm 38:4).

• Name the alliances of your heart—where you have run instead of to Him.

2. Grieve with godly sorrow

• “A broken and contrite heart, O God, You will not despise” (Psalm 51:17).

• Genuine sorrow is not self-pity; it is agreeing with God that the sin dishonored His covenant love.

3. Confess openly to the Lord

• “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us” (1 John 1:9).

• Use clear words—avoid vague generalities.

4. Turn (repent) decisively

• “Seek the LORD while He may be found…let the wicked forsake his way” (Isaiah 55:6-7).

• Replace the sinful alliance with active trust in God—prayer, Scripture, fellowship, obedience.

5. Trust the once-for-all sacrifice of Christ

• “We have confidence to enter the holy places by the blood of Jesus” (Hebrews 10:19).

• Forgiveness rests on His completed work, not on our remorse or efforts.

6. Receive cleansing and renewal

• “I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean… I will give you a new heart” (Ezekiel 36:25-26).

• Expect both pardon and power to live differently.


Promises of Restoration

Hosea 14:4 — “I will heal their apostasy; I will freely love them.”

Micah 7:18-19 — He “hurls all our sins into the depths of the sea.”

Psalm 103:12 — “As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions.”


Living in Renewed Faithfulness

• Cultivate daily dependence: Scripture intake, prayer, worship with God’s people.

• Guard against new alliances: quickly identify and reject substitutes for God’s sufficiency.

• Serve out of gratitude, not guilt: obedience becomes a response to mercy, not a means to earn it.

• Remember the gospel often: the same grace that forgives also sustains.

When we face our own Ezekiel 16:28 moments, the path back is clear: honest confession, wholehearted repentance, and confident trust in God’s unfailing covenant love displayed in Jesus Christ.

What other scriptures address spiritual unfaithfulness similar to Ezekiel 16:28?
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