How can we honor our parents as Proverbs 15:20 instructs? Opening the Text “A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish man despises his mother.” (Proverbs 15:20) What the Verse Says • “Wise” and “foolish” describe our character, not just our IQ. • Joy and contempt are the outcomes our parents experience because of our choices. • The verse assumes a literal, everyday application—honor is proved by deeds that gladden Dad and affirm Mom. Why Honor Matters • Commanded: “Honor your father and your mother.” (Exodus 20:12; Ephesians 6:1-3) • Reflects God’s order: respecting earthly authority trains our hearts to submit to heavenly authority. • Carries promise: “that it may go well with you” (Deuteronomy 5:16). Blessing is tied to obedience. Practical Ways to Honor • Listen attentively—give full attention when they speak (Proverbs 23:22). • Speak respectfully—tone and words that build up, never belittle (Colossians 3:8). • Obey promptly—especially while under their roof (Ephesians 6:1). • Express gratitude—thank them specifically and often (1 Thessalonians 5:18). • Provide for needs—time, finances, help with chores or appointments (Mark 7:10-12). • Protect their reputation—refuse gossip, correct misinformation (Proverbs 31:23 principle). • Seek their wisdom—ask advice, value their experience (Proverbs 1:8-9). • Celebrate milestones—remember birthdays, anniversaries, achievements. • Pray for them—intercede for health, faith, relationships (1 Timothy 2:1). • Live righteously—the godly life of a child is a parent’s deepest joy (3 John 4). Dealing with Difficult Family Dynamics • Set boundaries without bitterness; honor does not enable sin (Romans 12:18). • Forgive past wrongs, leaving vengeance to God (Romans 12:19). • Offer respect for their position even when trust is limited (1 Peter 2:17). • Seek counsel from mature believers when abuse or neglect is present (Proverbs 11:14). Blessings That Follow • Personal peace—guilt lifts when relationships are tended (Proverbs 28:13). • Family unity—honor promotes harmony across generations (Psalm 133:1). • Public testimony—outsiders notice Christlikeness in family life (Matthew 5:16). • Divine favor—the Lord rewards those who keep His commandments (Proverbs 3:1-2). Taking the Next Step Choose one tangible act of honor today—an encouraging call, an apology, a practical gift—and follow through. Small acts, lived consistently, turn Proverbs 15:20 into a daily reality. |
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