How can we avoid vanity in our own lives today? The Lesson in Absalom’s Hair - 2 Samuel 14:26: “And when he cut the hair of his head—he shaved it every year because it grew so heavy—he would weigh it out to be five pounds according to the royal standard.” - Absalom prized the weight of his hair as a symbol of prestige. - That same hair later caught in an oak and led to his death (2 Samuel 18:9–15). - What we glorify in ourselves can become the very snare that brings us down. What Vanity Looks Like Today - Constant comparison and self-promotion on social media. - Obsession with appearance, possessions, or achievements. - Craving applause, likes, or titles more than the approval of the Lord. - Measuring worth by what can be shown, weighed, or counted rather than by character and obedience. Practical Steps to Guard Our Hearts - Evaluate motives before posting, buying, or speaking; aim to exalt Christ, not self. - Cultivate gratitude by naming God’s gifts (James 1:17). - Practice secrecy in good deeds (Matthew 6:1); do something kind that no one will know. - Welcome accountability from a mature believer (Proverbs 27:6). - Embrace simplicity; limit possessions that feed ego (1 Timothy 6:6–8). - Redirect praise received, openly crediting God (Psalm 115:1). - Meditate on the cross daily for perspective (Galatians 6:14). Scripture Anchors for Daily Practice - Proverbs 16:18 — “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” - Romans 12:3 — “Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but think with sober judgment…” - 1 Peter 3:3–4 — Outer adornment fades; inner beauty is precious to God. - Jeremiah 9:23–24 — Boast only in knowing the Lord. - 1 Samuel 16:7 — The LORD looks at the heart. - Micah 6:8 — Walk humbly with your God. A Final Challenge Every talent, asset, and opportunity is a trust from the Father to glorify His name, not to magnify self. Fix eyes on Christ and serve others quietly to walk the opposite path of Absalom and to find true honor in humility. |
    |