What does Exodus 21:4 mean?
What is the meaning of Exodus 21:4?

if his master gives him a wife

“If his master gives him a wife…” (Exodus 21:4a)

• In Israel’s servanthood system, a Hebrew man could enter service for up to six years and then go free (Exodus 21:2).

• During that term his master had authority not only over his labor but, at times, over major life arrangements—marriage included (compare Genesis 24:34–40 where masters acted decisively for servants).

• The wife in view was usually a female servant already owned by the master (Exodus 21:7), highlighting that this arrangement concerned people under the same household authority, not random matchmaking.

• Such provision protected the woman from poverty and gave the man companionship, paralleling God’s declaration that “it is not good for the man to be alone” (Genesis 2:18).

Cross references in context: Exodus 21:2–3; Leviticus 25:39–41; Deuteronomy 15:12–14.


and she bears him sons or daughters

“…and she bears him sons or daughters…” (Exodus 21:4b)

• Children signified blessing and legacy in Israel (Psalm 127:3–5).

• Their arrival during the servant’s term indicated that real family bonds formed, yet within a legal framework still governed by the master.

• Scripture consistently treats children as under the authority of the household head (Ephesians 6:1), so the master’s claim over the woman naturally extended to her offspring.

Cross references in context: Genesis 33:5; Deuteronomy 6:6–7; Colossians 3:20.


the woman and her children shall belong to her master

“…the woman and her children shall belong to her master…” (Exodus 21:4c)

• Because the master had provided the wife, he retained legal rights over her and the children, just as property accrued during service reverted to the master (compare Leviticus 25:45–46).

• This clause prevented a departing servant from depleting the master’s household labor force, balancing mercy toward the servant with justice toward the master who sustained them (Proverbs 11:1).

• The provision also preserved familial integrity for the woman; remaining with her children under a familiar roof protected her from abandonment or destitution (Deuteronomy 24:14–15).

Cross references in context: Nehemiah 5:5; 2 Kings 4:1; Job 31:13.


and only the man shall go free

“…and only the man shall go free.” (Exodus 21:4d)

• At the end of six years the male servant gained liberty without ransom (Exodus 21:2), picturing God’s concern for personal freedom (Jeremiah 34:14).

• Yet he faced a choice: leave alone or voluntarily remain with his family by becoming a bond-servant for life (Exodus 21:5–6).

– This ceremony at the doorpost symbolized permanent loyalty and mirrored our own call to serve Christ willingly (Romans 6:18; Galatians 5:13).

• The law thus guarded genuine freedom while honoring covenant commitments already in place within the master’s household.

Cross references in context: Deuteronomy 15:16–17; Psalm 40:6–8; 1 Peter 2:16.


summary

Exodus 21:4 teaches that when a Hebrew servant received a wife from his master, legal responsibility for the woman and their children remained with the master. Upon the servant’s release after six years, only he automatically gained freedom; the family did not. This safeguarded both parties: the servant retained the right to liberty, while the master’s household remained intact. The provision also set up a gracious option—lifelong service driven by love—pointing ahead to the believer’s willing devotion to the Lord who redeems and adopts us into His own household.

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