What does Romans 16:13 mean?
What is the meaning of Romans 16:13?

Greet Rufus

Paul writes, “Greet Rufus” (Romans 16:13).

• Personal greetings show the warmth and reality of fellowship among believers (Romans 16:3-4; Philippians 4:21).

• They remind every believer—no matter how ordinary a name may seem—that God sees and records faithful service (2 Timothy 4:7-8).

• A simple greeting is an act of love commanded elsewhere: “Greet all the brothers with a holy kiss” (1 Thessalonians 5:26; cf. 2 John 1:13).

By naming Rufus, the Holy Spirit affirms the value of each member in the body of Christ.


Chosen in the Lord

Paul adds that Rufus is “chosen in the Lord.”

• This points to God’s gracious election (Ephesians 1:4; 2 Thessalonians 2:13).

• Being “chosen” offers assurance: “You did not choose Me, but I chose you” (John 15:16).

• Election fuels humility and service, not pride, because it is grounded in Christ’s work alone (1 Peter 1:1-2).

Rufus’s life is a testimony that God calls specific people for His purposes, anchoring their identity firmly “in the Lord.”


And his mother

Paul continues, “and his mother.”

• Scripture consistently honors mothers (Exodus 20:12; Proverbs 31:28-30).

• Rufus’s mother is remembered not for position but for faithful nurture—echoing Lois and Eunice, who passed sincere faith to Timothy (2 Timothy 1:5).

• Her inclusion shows that practical, everyday obedience can ripple into lasting kingdom impact.


Who has been a mother to me as well

Paul says Rufus’s mother “has been a mother to me as well.”

• Spiritual family transcends bloodlines (Matthew 12:49-50).

• Just as Jesus entrusted Mary to John (John 19:26-27), believers care for one another in familial ways.

• Paul often spoke of spiritual parenthood—calling Timothy his “true child in the faith” (1 Timothy 1:2) and comparing his labor to childbirth (Galatians 4:19).

• Practical expressions may include:

– Providing meals and lodging (Acts 16:15)

– Offering counsel and encouragement (Philemon 1:7)

– Protecting and advocating when ministry is opposed (Acts 18:26)

Such maternal care strengthened Paul for continued gospel work.


summary

Romans 16:13 celebrates individual believers—Rufus, specially chosen by God, and a mother whose loving service extended to the apostle himself. Together they illustrate the tender, family-like bonds Christ forges in His church, affirm the comforting doctrine of election, and highlight how ordinary acts of maternal kindness advance the gospel and refresh God’s servants.

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