How can we discern when to speak or remain silent, like Jesus? Seeing Jesus in Luke 20:40 “ And they did not dare to question Him any longer.” • Moments earlier, religious leaders had fired one trap after another. • Jesus answered each challenge with flawless truth, then stopped. • His silence ended a pointless debate and let truth stand unopposed. What Silence Accomplishes • Shuts the door on strife once truth has been made plain (Proverbs 26:4). • Exposes empty motives in challengers (Luke 20; Titus 3:9). • Shows confident trust in the Father’s vindication (Isaiah 30:15). • Guards the tongue from sin when anger or pride would erupt (Proverbs 29:11). • Models the quiet strength seen again before Pilate and Herod (Matthew 27:12-14; John 19:9). When Words Are Needed • God’s honor or the gospel is at stake (1 Peter 3:15). • A teachable heart is searching for light (Acts 8:30-35). • Silence would enable error or injustice (Proverbs 31:8-9). • The Spirit gives a clear, timely utterance (Luke 12:11-12). • Comfort, encouragement, or instruction can build up another (Ephesians 4:29). When Silence Is Wiser • Hearts are hardened and only argument remains (Matthew 7:6). • Repeated answers have been given and rejected (Matthew 10:14). • Discussions drift into foolish controversies (2 Timothy 2:23). • Fleshly anger is rising within us (James 1:19-20). • Another believer is better positioned to speak (1 Corinthians 12:21). A Discernment Checklist 1. Motive – Is my aim God’s glory or personal victory? 2. Audience – Are they open or entrenched? 3. Outcome – Will words edify or only inflame? 4. Timing – Is this the “time to speak” or “to be silent”? (Ecclesiastes 3:7) 5. Tone – Will my speech be “seasoned with salt”? (Colossians 4:6) 6. Example – Does Christ speak or stay silent in similar moments? Training the Tongue Daily • Abide in Scripture; let its truth shape every response (Psalm 119:165). • Pray for Spirit-led self-control, a fruit promised to every believer (Galatians 5:22-23). • Practice listening before speaking; be “quick to hear, slow to speak” (James 1:19). • Memorize verses on speech to recall in the heat of conversation (Proverbs 15:1, 23). • Review the checklist above until wisdom becomes reflex. Living the Pattern Speak with courage when truth demands it. Rest in silence when further words would dim His glory. In both, follow the flawless example set in Luke 20:40, trusting the Lord to use either voice or quiet to advance His unchanging Word. |
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