Why prioritize wisdom from believers?
Why is it crucial to prioritize wisdom from experienced believers in decision-making?

The Snapshot in 1 Kings 12:6

“Then King Rehoboam consulted with the elders who had served his father Solomon during his lifetime. ‘How do you advise me to respond to this people?’ he asked.”


What Happened Next—And Why It Matters

• The elders urged gentleness; the younger peers urged harshness.

• Rehoboam chose the latter, and the kingdom fractured (1 Kings 12:13-16).

• Scripture records this sequence to show the high stakes of sidelining seasoned counsel.


Why Seasoned Believers Are Indispensable

• Tested faith: They have experienced God’s faithfulness through decades of trials.

• Scriptural depth: Years of study equip them to apply truth accurately (Psalm 1:2-3).

• Objective perspective: Less driven by impulse, they weigh long-term consequences.

• God-given role: “Young men … submit yourselves to your elders” (1 Peter 5:5).


Supporting Passages

Proverbs 11:14 — “For lack of guidance, a nation falls, but with many counselors comes deliverance.”

Proverbs 15:22 — “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.”

Hebrews 13:7 — “Remember your leaders who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith.”

Titus 2:2-3 — Older believers are appointed as “teachers of what is good.”

Exodus 18:19-24 — Moses prospered when he heeded Jethro’s veteran wisdom.


Heart Posture for Receiving Counsel

• Humility: “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble” (1 Peter 5:5).

• Teachability: “Incline your ear and hear the words of the wise” (Proverbs 22:17).

• Obedience to Scripture: Trust that God speaks through His body, not just individual insight.


Practical Steps

1. Identify mature believers whose lives consistently mirror biblical truth.

2. Invite their input before finalizing major decisions—career moves, relationships, financial commitments.

3. Weigh their counsel against Scripture; experienced advice never contradicts God’s Word.

4. Pray for discernment, then act with confidence, knowing you have honored God’s design for guidance.

How does Proverbs 11:14 relate to Rehoboam's consultation with the elders?
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