1 Samuel 25:8
Ask your young men, and they will tell you. So let my young men find favor with you, for we have come on the day of a feast. Please give whatever you can afford to your servants and to your son David.'"
Ask your young men, and they will tell you.
This phrase reflects the cultural practice of verifying information through witnesses. In ancient Israel, testimony from multiple sources was crucial for establishing truth (Deuteronomy 19:15). David's request for Nabal to consult his own men underscores the transparency and honesty of David's intentions. It also highlights the communal nature of shepherding, where interactions between different groups were common, and reputations were well-known.

So let my young men find favor with you,
Finding favor is a recurring theme in biblical narratives, often associated with divine or human grace (Genesis 39:4, Ruth 2:10). David's appeal for favor is a diplomatic gesture, recognizing Nabal's authority and resources. This reflects the social hierarchy and patronage systems of the time, where those in need would seek the goodwill of wealthier individuals.

for we have come on the day of a feast.
Feasts were significant in Israelite culture, often associated with religious observance and community celebration (Leviticus 23). The timing of David's request during a feast suggests an expectation of generosity, as sharing and hospitality were customary during such times (Deuteronomy 16:14). This context implies that Nabal's refusal would be particularly egregious, given the cultural norms of hospitality.

Please give whatever you can spare to your servants and to your son David.’
David's humble request for "whatever you can spare" indicates a respectful approach, acknowledging Nabal's discretion in the matter. The reference to "your son David" is a term of humility and respect, aligning with the biblical principle of honoring others (Exodus 20:12). This phrase also subtly reminds Nabal of David's anointed status and his future role as king, as David is often seen as a type of Christ, embodying humility and servanthood (Philippians 2:7).

Persons / Places / Events
1. David
The future king of Israel, currently on the run from King Saul. He is leading a group of men and seeking provisions.

2. Nabal
A wealthy but harsh and foolish man, whose name means "fool" in Hebrew. He owns large flocks and herds in Carmel.

3. Abigail
Nabal's wise and discerning wife, who later plays a crucial role in averting disaster.

4. Young Men
David's men who are sent to request provisions from Nabal during the shearing festival.

5. Carmel
A region in Judah where Nabal's wealth is centered, and where the events of this chapter take place.
Teaching Points
Humility in Requesting Help
David's approach to Nabal is marked by humility and respect, a model for how we should ask for assistance from others.

The Importance of Wisdom
Abigail's role in this account underscores the value of wisdom and discernment in resolving conflicts and making peace.

Generosity and Hospitality
The expectation of generosity during festive times is a reminder of our call to be hospitable and share our blessings with others.

Consequences of Foolishness
Nabal's refusal to help David illustrates the potential consequences of foolishness and pride.

God's Provision
Despite Nabal's refusal, God provides for David through Abigail, reminding us of God's faithfulness in meeting our needs.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does David's approach to Nabal reflect a biblical model of humility and respect when making requests?

2. In what ways does Abigail's intervention demonstrate the biblical principle of being a peacemaker?

3. How can we apply the lesson of generosity and hospitality from this passage in our own lives, especially during times of celebration?

4. What are the potential consequences of foolishness and pride as seen in Nabal's response, and how can we guard against these in our own lives?

5. How does this account illustrate God's provision, and what other biblical examples can you think of where God provided in unexpected ways?
Connections to Other Scriptures
1 Samuel 25:14-19
Abigail's wise intervention contrasts with Nabal's foolishness, highlighting the theme of wisdom versus folly.

Proverbs 18:23
This verse speaks to the humility in asking for help, which is reflected in David's respectful request to Nabal.

Matthew 5:9
Jesus' teaching on peacemakers can be seen in Abigail's actions to prevent conflict between David and Nabal.
David's Activity and AdvancementB. Dale 1 Samuel 25:1-44
The Prosperous FoolB. Dale 1 Samuel 25:2-39
Nabal, the ChurlC. Vince.1 Samuel 25:4-13
People
Abigail, Ahinoam, Caleb, David, Israelites, Jesse, Jezreel, Laish, Maon, Michal, Nabal, Palti, Paltiel, Phalti, Samuel, Saul
Places
Carmel, Gallim, Hebron, Maon, Paran, Ramah
Topics
Anything, David, Declare, Favor, Favorable, Favour, Feast, Festive, Findeth, Grace, Please, Questioned, Servants, Whatever, Whatsoever, Wherefore
Dictionary of Bible Themes
1 Samuel 25:8

     6672   grace, in relationships

1 Samuel 25:2-11

     5965   temperament

1 Samuel 25:2-35

     5745   women

1 Samuel 25:4-35

     5325   gifts

1 Samuel 25:7-8

     7785   shepherd, occupation

1 Samuel 25:7-11

     4418   bread

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If Then to Sin, that Others May not Commit a Worse Sin...
21. If then to sin, that others may not commit a worse sin, either against us or against any, without doubt we ought not; it is to be considered in that which Lot did, whether it be an example which we ought to imitate, or rather one which we ought to avoid. For it seems meet to be more looked into and noted, that, when so horrible an evil from the most flagitious impiety of the Sodomites was impending over his guests, which he wished to ward off and was not able, to such a degree may even that just
St. Augustine—Against Lying

Jeremiah, a Lesson for the Disappointed.
"Be not afraid of their faces: for I am with thee to deliver thee, saith the Lord."--Jeremiah i. 8. The Prophets were ever ungratefully treated by the Israelites, they were resisted, their warnings neglected, their good services forgotten. But there was this difference between the earlier and the later Prophets; the earlier lived and died in honour among their people,--in outward honour; though hated and thwarted by the wicked, they were exalted to high places, and ruled in the congregation.
John Henry Newman—Parochial and Plain Sermons, Vol. VIII

How the Meek and the Passionate are to be Admonished.
(Admonition 17.) Differently to be admonished are the meek and the passionate. For sometimes the meek, when they are in authority, suffer from the torpor of sloth, which is a kindred disposition, and as it were placed hard by. And for the most part from the laxity of too great gentleness they soften the force of strictness beyond need. But on the other hand the passionate, in that they are swept on into frenzy of mind by the impulse of anger, break up the calm of quietness, and so throw into
Leo the Great—Writings of Leo the Great

Appendix xix. On Eternal Punishment, According to the Rabbis and the New Testament
THE Parables of the Ten Virgins' and of the Unfaithful Servant' close with a Discourse on the Last Things,' the final Judgment, and the fate of those Christ's Righ Hand and at His Left (St. Matt. xxv. 31-46). This final Judgment by our Lord forms a fundamental article in the Creed of the Church. It is the Christ Who comes, accompanied by the Angelic Host, and sits down on the throne of His Glory, when all nations are gathered before Him. Then the final separation is made, and joy or sorrow awarded
Alfred Edersheim—The Life and Times of Jesus the Messiah

Letters of St. Bernard
I To Malachy. 1141.[924] (Epistle 341.) To the venerable lord and most blessed father, Malachy, by the grace of God archbishop of the Irish, legate of the Apostolic See, Brother Bernard called to be abbot of Clairvaux, [desiring] to find grace with the Lord. 1. Amid the manifold anxieties and cares of my heart,[925] by the multitude of which my soul is sore vexed,[926] the brothers coming from a far country[927] that they may serve the Lord,[928] thy letter, and thy staff, they comfort
H. J. Lawlor—St. Bernard of Clairvaux's Life of St. Malachy of Armagh

The Exile Continued.
"So David fled, and escaped and came to Samuel to Ramah, and told him all that Saul had done unto him. And he and Samuel went and dwelt in Naioth" (1 Sam. xix. 18)--or, as the word probably means, in the collection of students' dwellings, inhabited by the sons of the prophets, where possibly there may have been some kind of right of sanctuary. Driven thence by Saul's following him, and having had one last sorrowful hour of Jonathan's companionship--the last but one on earth--he fled to Nob, whither
Alexander Maclaren—The Life of David

Barzillai
BY REV. GEORGE MILLIGAN, M.A., D.D. "There is nothing," says Socrates to Cephalus in the Republic, "I like better than conversing with aged men. For I regard them as travellers who have gone a journey which I too may have to go, and of whom it is right to learn the character of the way, whether it is rugged or difficult, or smooth and easy" (p. 328 E.). It is to such an aged traveller that we are introduced in the person of Barzillai the Gileadite. And though he is one of the lesser-known characters
George Milligan—Men of the Bible; Some Lesser-Known

The Section Chap. I. -iii.
The question which here above all engages our attention, and requires to be answered, is this: Whether that which is reported in these chapters did, or did not, actually and outwardly take place. The history of the inquiries connected with this question is found most fully in Marckius's "Diatribe de uxore fornicationum," Leyden, 1696, reprinted in the Commentary on the Minor Prophets by the same author. The various views may be divided into three classes. 1. It is maintained by very many interpreters,
Ernst Wilhelm Hengstenberg—Christology of the Old Testament

The Promise in 2 Samuel, Chap. vii.
The Messianic prophecy, as we have seen, began at a time long anterior to that of David. Even in Genesis, we perceived [Pg 131] it, increasing more and more in distinctness. There is at first only the general promise that the seed of the woman should obtain the victory over the kingdom of the evil one;--then, that the salvation should come through the descendants of Shem;--then, from among them Abraham is marked out,--of his sons, Isaac,--from among his sons, Jacob,--and from among the twelve sons
Ernst Wilhelm Hengstenberg—Christology of the Old Testament

Samuel
Alike from the literary and the historical point of view, the book[1] of Samuel stands midway between the book of Judges and the book of Kings. As we have already seen, the Deuteronomic book of Judges in all probability ran into Samuel and ended in ch. xii.; while the story of David, begun in Samuel, embraces the first two chapters of the first book of Kings. The book of Samuel is not very happily named, as much of it is devoted to Saul and the greater part to David; yet it is not altogether inappropriate,
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

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