Blended Families
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Blended families, also known as stepfamilies, are family units where one or both parents have children from previous relationships, and these families come together to form a new household. The concept of blended families is not explicitly detailed in the Bible, but the Scriptures provide principles and examples that can be applied to understand and navigate the dynamics of such families.

Biblical Examples:

1. Jacob and His Family: Jacob's family can be seen as an early example of a blended family. He had children with Leah, Rachel, and their maidservants, Bilhah and Zilpah. This complex family structure led to various challenges, including jealousy and favoritism, as seen in the account of Joseph and his brothers (Genesis 37). Despite these difficulties, God worked through Jacob's family to fulfill His covenant promises.

2. David and His Children: King David had children with multiple wives, leading to a blended family with its own set of challenges. The account of Amnon and Absalom (2 Samuel 13) highlights the potential for conflict and the need for wise and just leadership within a family.

Biblical Principles:

1. Love and Unity: The Bible emphasizes the importance of love and unity within the family. Ephesians 4:2-3 encourages believers to "be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace." In a blended family, these virtues are essential for fostering harmony and understanding among all members.

2. Parental Responsibility: Parents are called to raise their children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). This responsibility extends to stepchildren, as parents are to model Christ-like behavior and provide spiritual guidance, regardless of biological ties.

3. Forgiveness and Reconciliation: Blended families may face unique challenges, including past hurts and conflicts. The Bible teaches the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation. Colossians 3:13 instructs, "Bear with each other and forgive any complaint you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."

4. Respect and Honor: The commandment to honor one's father and mother (Exodus 20:12) applies to all family members, including stepparents. Respect and honor are foundational for building strong relationships within a blended family.

5. God's Sovereignty and Purpose: Romans 8:28 reminds believers that "in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who are called according to His purpose." This assurance can provide comfort and hope for blended families, knowing that God can use their unique circumstances for His glory.

Challenges and Opportunities:

Blended families may face challenges such as loyalty conflicts, differing parenting styles, and the integration of family traditions. However, they also present opportunities for growth, love, and the demonstration of God's grace. By relying on biblical principles and seeking God's guidance, blended families can thrive and reflect the unity and love that God desires for all His children.
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Galatians 3:28
There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
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Peculiarities of Tennessee Synod.
... Such vain, arrogant, and indolent families truly cannot support themselves in such
style ... and did not wish to acquire a spiritual dominion blended with civil ...
/.../bente/american lutheranism/peculiarities of tennessee synod.htm

A Gentle Heroine, a Gentile Convert
... The two strongest emotions of our nature are blended in it, and each gives a ... If Ruth's
temper lived in our families, they would be true 'houses of God' and ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture f/a gentle heroine a gentile.htm

God's Inheritance in the Saints
... as the land of Canaan was distributed amongst tribes and families, and each ... and
interpenetrating possession; where 'mine' and 'thine' become blended, like the ...
/.../gods inheritance in the saints.htm

The Scotch Catechisms.
... assemblies enacted similar laws, and enjoined it also upon the heads of families
to catechise ... In the Reformation we find doctrine, life, action nobly blended. ...
/.../ 91 the scotch catechisms.htm

Opening Thoughts.
... We have the tender tones of a Man blended with the ineffable majesty of God ... a cluster
of poor cottages, numbering little more than twenty families, with groups ...
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In Jerusalem when Herod Reigned
... wondered, and felt oppressed in that atmosphere of strangely blended religious rigorism ...
by passed the luxurious scion of the High-Priestly families; the proud ...
/.../the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter i in jerusalem when.htm

The Minister's Farewell
... another into a molehill; but he had endeavoured to present all blended together,
like ... I could tell many a sad story of families dead in sin, whose consciences ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 6 1860/the ministers farewell.htm

Quotations from the Lxx. In Early Christian Writings.
... xxvii.7, iii.5, xxii.4 are blended into an arabesque ... early Roman Church was largely
composed of Greek-speaking Jews, the freedmen of Roman families; and Clement ...
/.../chapter iii quotations from the.htm

Words to Rest On
... When greatness and goodness are blended, as in his case, there is sure to be a ... to
be bold in the way of holiness, in their own circle, in their own families! ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 38 1892/words to rest on.htm

Thoughts for the Clergy on the Amusement Question.
... on the use of cards and billiards, multitudes of Christian families practice dancing ...
not proclaiming unmixed evil, where evil and good are blended in liberal ...
/.../vincent/amusement a force in christian training/thoughts for the clergy on.htm

Resources
Questions about Family & Parenting (All) | GotQuestions.org

What is Neopaganism? | GotQuestions.org

What is religious syncretism? | GotQuestions.org

Blended: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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