Elderly Parents
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The Bible places significant emphasis on the respect, care, and honor due to elderly parents, reflecting a broader biblical principle of honoring one's family and elders. This principle is rooted in the Ten Commandments, where God commands, "Honor your father and your mother, so that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you" (Exodus 20:12). This commandment underscores the importance of family structure and the respect for parental authority, which extends into the care for parents in their old age.

Old Testament Context

In the Old Testament, the family unit is central to the social and religious life of Israel. The Hebrew culture placed a high value on the wisdom and experience of the elderly. Leviticus 19:32 instructs, "You are to rise in the presence of the elderly, honor the aged, and fear your God. I am the LORD" . This verse highlights the respect and reverence due to the elderly, including one's parents, as a reflection of one's reverence for God.

The book of Proverbs also provides wisdom on the treatment of parents, emphasizing the joy and blessing that come from honoring them. Proverbs 23:22 advises, "Listen to your father who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old" . This counsel encourages children to value the guidance and presence of their parents throughout their lives.

New Testament Teachings

The New Testament reaffirms the command to honor one's parents, extending it into the Christian community. Jesus Himself criticized the Pharisees for neglecting their parents under the guise of religious duty, as seen in Mark 7:10-13. He emphasized that caring for one's parents is a direct application of God's commandment.

The Apostle Paul reiterates this command in his letters. In Ephesians 6:1-3, he writes, "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother' (which is the first commandment with a promise), 'that it may go well with you and that you may have a long life on the earth'" . Paul emphasizes that honoring parents is not only a duty but also carries a promise of blessing.

Practical Implications

Caring for elderly parents is seen as a practical outworking of one's faith. In 1 Timothy 5:4, Paul instructs, "But if a widow has children or grandchildren, they must first learn to show godliness to their own family and to repay their parents, for this is pleasing in the sight of God" . This passage highlights the responsibility of children to provide for their parents, especially in their later years, as an expression of godliness.

The biblical mandate to honor and care for elderly parents is a reflection of God's character and His design for family relationships. It calls for a commitment to love, respect, and provide for parents, recognizing their lifelong contributions and the wisdom they offer. This care is not only a familial duty but also a spiritual act of worship and obedience to God.
Topical Bible Verses
1 Timothy 5:8
But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
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Deuteronomy 5:16
Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God has commanded you; that your days may be prolonged, and that it may go well with you, in the land which the LORD your God gives you.
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Ephesians 6:2
Honor your father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise;
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1 Peter 2:17
Honor all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king.
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Children May be Found of Like or of Unlike Dispositions with their ...
... to wish to be too importunate with an elderly man's gravity on the subject of a
young man's work. As to the similarity of disposition to the parents which is ...
/.../augustine/anti-pelagian writings/chapter 10 vi children may be.htm

Prov. 22:06 the Duties of Parents
... in a church when nobody comes up to the Lord's table but the elderly people, and ...
besides those who come to school, and you who are their parents and friends ...
/.../the upper room being a few truths for the times/chapter xvi prov 22 6 the.htm

Fathers and Children'
... have to do with parents as well as with children, and some which can only have to
do with parents"for they are the sins of grown-up and elderly people, and ...
/.../kingsley/sermons for the times/sermon i fathers and children.htm

"Good-For-Nothing"
... At that moment approached an elderly woman, poorly clad, blind of one eye, lame ...
"Why yes, you were in service there once, when the sheriff's parents were alive ...
/.../wells/bible stories and religious classics/good-for-nothing.htm

1 Timothy iv. 14-Nov
... I think not, but of any elderly man ... But if any widow have children or grandchildren,
let them learn first to show piety at home, and to requite their parents.". ...
/.../homily xiii 1 timothy iv.htm

(Of those who Ought not to be Admitted to Prefer an Accusation, or ...
... same should also be the case with robbers, or with those who assault the elderly. ...
if it is their wish, and they agree among themselves, the parents only should ...
//christianbookshelf.org/unknown/the decretals/v of those who ought.htm

Wherefore all Shall Walk after their Own Will. ...
... And the children will lay hands on their parents. ... None will reverence the grey hairs
of the elderly, and none will have pity upon the comeliness of the youthful ...
/.../the extant works and fragments of hippolytus/piece vii wherefore all shall.htm

The Presentation of the Blessed virgin in the Temple
... introduced to her as her future foster-child by the priests and by her parents. ... This
elderly woman accompanied them to the inn and was given a package of the ...
/.../emmerich/the life of the blessed virgin mary/iii the presentation of the.htm

Letter cxxiii. To Ageruchia.
... The scribes and pharisees on the other hand taught the children to answer their
parents by saying: "It ... 3308] Why can you not have grave and elderly servants or ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter cxxiii to ageruchia.htm

Measures to Promote Revivals.
... told that some years ago, in New England, a certain elderly clergyman was so ... Among
other innovations, he refused to baptize the children of impenitent parents. ...
/.../finney/lectures on revivals of religion/lecture xiv measures to promote.htm

Resources
What age will everyone be in Heaven? | GotQuestions.org

Is it wrong for a Christian family to put a loved one into a nursing home? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about caregiving? | GotQuestions.org

Elderly: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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