Getting Married
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Introduction:
Marriage is a sacred institution established by God, serving as a foundational element of human society. It is a covenantal union between a man and a woman, designed for companionship, procreation, and mutual support. The Bible provides guidance on the principles and purposes of marriage, emphasizing its sanctity and the responsibilities it entails.

Biblical Foundation:
The concept of marriage is introduced in the early chapters of Genesis. God created man and woman and ordained marriage as a union between them. Genesis 2:24 states, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This verse highlights the leaving, cleaving, and uniting aspects of marriage, underscoring its significance as a divinely instituted bond.

Purpose of Marriage:
Marriage serves several purposes according to Scripture:

1. Companionship: God recognized the need for companionship, declaring, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him" (Genesis 2:18). Marriage provides a context for deep, intimate companionship.

2. Procreation: One of the primary purposes of marriage is to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:28). Children are considered a blessing from the Lord, and marriage provides a stable environment for raising them.

3. Mutual Support: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 states, "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. For if one falls, the other will lift up his companion." Marriage is designed for mutual support and encouragement.

4. Reflection of Christ and the Church: Ephesians 5:31-32 draws a parallel between marriage and the relationship between Christ and the Church, illustrating the sacrificial love and unity that should characterize the marital relationship.

Roles and Responsibilities:
The Bible outlines specific roles and responsibilities for husbands and wives within marriage:

· Husbands: Ephesians 5:25 instructs, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." Husbands are called to lead with love, sacrifice, and understanding.

· Wives: Ephesians 5:22 states, "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord." Wives are encouraged to respect and support their husbands, fostering a harmonious partnership.

Marriage as a Covenant:
Marriage is not merely a contract but a covenant before God. Malachi 2:14 refers to marriage as a covenant, emphasizing its binding and sacred nature. This covenantal aspect underscores the commitment and fidelity expected in marriage.

Challenges and Preservation:
While marriage is a source of joy and fulfillment, it also presents challenges. The Bible offers guidance for preserving and strengthening the marital bond:

· Forgiveness and Reconciliation: Colossians 3:13 advises, "Bear with one another and forgive any complaint you may have against someone else. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." Forgiveness is essential for resolving conflicts and maintaining unity.

· Communication and Understanding: James 1:19 encourages, "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger." Effective communication fosters understanding and prevents misunderstandings.

· Prayer and Spiritual Growth: Couples are encouraged to pray together and grow spiritually, as seen in 1 Peter 3:7 , which advises husbands to treat their wives with respect so that their prayers may not be hindered.

Conclusion:
Marriage, as ordained by God, is a profound and sacred union that reflects His design for human relationships. It requires love, commitment, and a willingness to grow together in faith and understanding. Through adherence to biblical principles, couples can experience the fullness of God's blessing in their marriage.
Topical Bible Verses
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
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2 Corinthians 6:14
Be you not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion has light with darkness?
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1 Corinthians 7:11
But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
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1 Peter 3:1
Likewise, you wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
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Romans 1:26-27
For this cause God gave them up to vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
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Library

On Matrimony
... When persons make arrangements about getting married they should tell the priest
every circumstance that they think might be an impediment. ...
/.../kinkead/baltimore catechism no 4/lesson 26 on matrimony.htm

Temptations.
... We told her that she ought to wait until she wore long dresses before she talked
about getting married. Don't you think that is dreadful?". "Yes, dear, it is. ...
/.../byrum/the value of a praying mother/chapter xvii temptations.htm

On Mr. Rudyard Kipling and Making the World Small
... Posting a letter and getting married are among the few things left that are entirely
romantic; for to be entirely romantic a thing must be irrevocable. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/chesterton/heretics/iii on mr rudyard kipling.htm

Waiting Only Upon God
... comes to me and says, "I want your advice, sir; as my minister, perhaps you could
tell me what I ought to do." Sometimes it is about their getting married. ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 3 1857/waiting only upon god.htm

Chapter xxv
... Hebrew: "took to wife") Rebekah. The patriarchs practised fine self-restraint
and were not unduly hasty about getting married. 21. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/leupold/exposition of genesis volume 1/chapter xxv.htm

Concerning the Famine that Happened in Judea and Syria; and How ...
... He also fell in love again, and married another wife, not suffering his reason to ...
a city, and was before called Strato's Tower, he set about getting a plan for ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 9 concerning the famine.htm

Chapter xi
... But Sarai was barren; she had no children. "To take a wife" (laqach ishshah)
is the technical Hebrew expression for getting married. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/leupold/exposition of genesis volume 1/chapter xi.htm

The Right to Live with the People of My Choice
... Mr. Gibb picks for me for a year or two"but I'm getting the one I ... Even married couples
will probably be asked to take one or more younger workers into their ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/williamson/have we no rights/chapter 9 the right to.htm

External Foes.
... I am married to a lawyer, and he has a large practice. ... it will be all through
fashionable society, I beg of you don't make a fool of yourself by getting up and ...
//christianbookshelf.org/moody/the overcoming life/part iii external foes.htm

Roots
... It was not getting dark yet, but it meant that she had had enough, so I ... But the child
was married, and went away, and she feared to ask the Missie Ammal to ...
/.../wilson-carmichael/things as they are/chapter viii roots.htm

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