Getting Rid of Friends
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In the context of Christian teachings, the concept of "getting rid of friends" is not directly addressed in the Bible. However, Scripture provides guidance on the nature of friendships, the influence of companions, and the importance of maintaining relationships that align with Christian values. The Bible emphasizes the significance of choosing friends wisely and the potential consequences of associating with those who lead one away from a righteous path.

Biblical Principles on Friendship

1. The Influence of Companions: The Bible warns about the influence that friends can have on one's character and spiritual journey. Proverbs 13:20 states, "Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm." This verse highlights the importance of surrounding oneself with individuals who encourage wisdom and godliness.

2. Avoiding Corrupting Influences: Scripture advises believers to be cautious of friendships that may lead them astray. 1 Corinthians 15:33 warns, "Do not be deceived: 'Bad company corrupts good character.'" This passage underscores the potential for negative influences to corrupt one's morals and values.

3. Unequally Yoked Relationships: The Bible also addresses the concept of being unequally yoked with unbelievers. 2 Corinthians 6:14 advises, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?" This verse suggests that believers should be mindful of forming close relationships with those who do not share their faith.

4. The Role of Conflict and Reconciliation: While the Bible encourages reconciliation and forgiveness, it also acknowledges that some relationships may need to be re-evaluated. Matthew 18:15-17 provides a process for addressing conflicts among believers, ultimately allowing for separation if reconciliation is not possible: "If your brother sins against you, go and confront him privately. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.' If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, regard him as you would a pagan or a tax collector."

5. Pursuing Peace and Holiness: Hebrews 12:14 encourages believers to "Pursue peace with everyone, as well as holiness, without which no one will see the Lord." This verse suggests that while peace is to be sought, holiness and adherence to God's standards are paramount, even if it means distancing oneself from certain relationships.

Practical Considerations

In light of these biblical principles, Christians are encouraged to evaluate their friendships through prayer and discernment. The goal is not to "get rid" of friends in a dismissive manner but to ensure that one's relationships are edifying and aligned with a life dedicated to following Christ. When faced with friendships that may be detrimental to one's spiritual growth, believers are called to seek God's wisdom and guidance in making decisions that honor Him.
Topical Bible Verses
2 Corinthians 6:14
Be you not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion has light with darkness?
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1 Thessalonians 5:21
Prove all things; hold fast that which is good.
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A Look Ahead
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for was to get rid of what ... And yet it wasn't getting rid of the things the ...
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Fear and Faith
... If he could have changed them by getting rid of Him who reminded him of them, it
might have been worth while to send Him away"but to dismiss ... Dear friends! ...
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It was a Great Delight to Diamond when at Length Nanny was Well ...
... you will see that these were not very jolly times for our friends in the mews ... had
been looking anxiously for him, chiefly with the desire of getting rid of Ruby ...
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The Monk of Thagaste
... the generous donors felt, we are told, an actual relief in getting rid of them ... His
son Adeodatus, his friends Alypius and Evodius, Severus, who became Bishop of ...
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The World's Wages to a Prophet
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his getting hold of ... round Jehoiakim had been the prophet's friends; but either ...
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Love and Fear
... Ah, dear friends, do not rest until you face the facts, and having faced them, have ...
is, see that you resort only to the sane, sound way of getting rid of the ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture ephesians peter/love and fear.htm

All are Commanded to Pray --Prayer the Great Means of Salvation
... My dear friends, whoever you may be, who desire to be saved, come unto ... perfection
and of sovereign happiness; it is the efficacious means of getting rid of all ...
/.../a short method of prayer and spiritual torrents/chapter i all are commanded.htm

Johann Valentin Andrea
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last his weakened health furnished a good excuse for getting rid of him by an ...
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Heaven on Earth
... when we die, and saving our own miserable, worthless souls, and getting God's wages ...
If selfishness is evil, my friends, the sooner we get rid of it the ...
/.../kingsley/twenty-five village sermons/sermon xxi heaven on earth.htm

The Massacre
... seemed to have offered them a hope of getting rid of both ... dire event as a Divine
intervention to rid him, in ... it impossible for Philip and his two friends to sit ...
/.../chapter xxxiii the massacre.htm

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