Good Friends
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Definition and Importance
Good friends are individuals who provide companionship, support, and encouragement, reflecting the love and faithfulness that are central to Christian teachings. In the Bible, friendship is portrayed as a valuable and enriching relationship, often used as a metaphor for the relationship between God and His people.

Biblical Examples of Good Friends
1. David and Jonathan: One of the most notable examples of friendship in the Bible is the relationship between David and Jonathan. Despite the potential for rivalry, Jonathan, the son of King Saul, formed a deep bond with David. Their friendship was marked by loyalty and selflessness. In 1 Samuel 18:1, it is written, "After David had finished speaking with Saul, the souls of Jonathan and David were knit together, and Jonathan loved him as himself."

2. Ruth and Naomi: The account of Ruth and Naomi is another profound example of friendship. After the death of her husband, Ruth chose to stay with her mother-in-law, Naomi, demonstrating loyalty and devotion. Ruth 1:16-17 records Ruth's commitment: "But Ruth replied: 'Do not urge me to leave you or to turn from following you. For where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay. Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God. Where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. May the LORD punish me, and ever so severely, if anything but death separates you and me.'"

3. Jesus and His Disciples: Jesus exemplified the ultimate friendship through His relationship with His disciples. He taught them, shared in their joys and sorrows, and ultimately laid down His life for them. In John 15:13-15, Jesus says, "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. You are My friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything I have learned from My Father I have made known to you."

Characteristics of Good Friends
1. Loyalty: A good friend remains steadfast and faithful, even in difficult times. Proverbs 17:17 states, "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity."

2. Honesty: True friends speak the truth in love, offering guidance and correction when necessary. Proverbs 27:6 notes, "Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful."

3. Encouragement: Good friends uplift and encourage one another, helping each other grow in faith and character. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 encourages believers to "Therefore encourage and build one another up, just as you are already doing."

4. Sacrifice: A hallmark of genuine friendship is the willingness to put the needs of others before one's own. Philippians 2:3-4 advises, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others."

Theological Significance
Friendship in the Bible is not merely a social construct but a reflection of divine love and community. The friendships depicted in Scripture often mirror the covenant relationship between God and humanity. As believers, cultivating good friendships is a way to live out the love and grace that God extends to us. Through friendships, Christians can experience and demonstrate the love of Christ, serving as a testament to the transformative power of the Gospel.
Topical Bible Verses
Proverbs 13:20
He that walks with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.
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1 Corinthians 5:11
But now I have written to you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or an extortionist; with such an one no not to eat.
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1 Corinthians 13:1-13
Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
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Greek
2132. eunoeo -- to think kindly of, ie to be favorable
... eunoeo Phonetic Spelling: (yoo-no-eh'-o) Short Definition: I have good-will Definition ...
to think kindly of, ie to be favorable NASB Word Usage make friends (1). ...
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Strong's Hebrew
7965. shalom -- completeness, soundness, welfare, peace
... peace NASB Word Usage close (2), ease (1), favorable (1), friend* (1), friendly
terms (1), friends* (2), greet ... well, favor, friend, great, good health, perfect ...
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376. ish -- man
... 1), father* (1), fellow (3), fellows (2), friend* (1), friends* (1), high* (1 ... consent,
each, every (one), fellow, (foot-, husband-)man, (good-, great, mighty ...
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Library

The Right to Live with the People of My Choice
... Two good friends may be placed in a station together; or what is more likely, two
who have been placed together may become especially good friends. ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/williamson/have we no rights/chapter 9 the right to.htm

Concerning the Opinion of Plato, According to which He Defined the ...
... Book VIII. Chapter 13."Concerning the Opinion of Plato, According to Which He Defined
the Gods as Beings Entirely Good and the Friends of Virtue. ...
/.../augustine/city of god/chapter 13 concerning the opinion of.htm

Paul Writes to his Friends at Thessalonica
... TO HIS FRIENDS AT THESSALONICA. Paul and Silas and Timothy to the church of the
Thessalonians which lives in God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. May good- ...
/.../sherman/the childrens bible/paul writes to his friends.htm

The Our Father
... children, devout employees, devout and faithful rulers, good government, good weather,
peace, health, discipline, honor, good friends, faithful neighbors and ...
/.../luther/the small catechism of martin luther/iii the our father.htm

Letter vi. Associates and Friends.
... Untruthfulness; the habit of gossiping about friends or acquaintances or divulging ...
and conduct toward parents and teachers; indifference to the good opinion of ...
/.../letter vi associates and friends.htm

The Galleys
... nothing to do with him. But the new rector had his own ideas on the subject,
and the ill-assorted pair soon became very good friends. ...
/.../forbes/life of st vincent de paul/chapter 4 the galleys.htm

Jesus Wins Devoted Friends
... THE NEW TESTAMENT JESUS WINS DEVOTED FRIENDS. ... Now after John was put in prison, Jesus
came into Galilee, preaching God's good news: "The time has come; repent ...
/.../sherman/the childrens bible/jesus wins devoted friends.htm

Paul Writes to his Friends in Corinth
... THE NEW TESTAMENT PAUL WRITES TO HIS FRIENDS IN CORINTH. Paul ... endure. In all
things I can do as I like, but they are not all good for me. ...
/.../sherman/the childrens bible/paul writes to his friends 2.htm

Paul's Last Words to his Friends
... THE NEW TESTAMENT PAUL'S LAST WORDS TO HIS FRIENDS. ... has stood the test, how like
a son working with his father he has served with me in spreading the good news. ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/sherman/the childrens bible/pauls last words to his.htm

Jesus' Last Journey to Jerusalem.
... Judas said, "But, master, when thou art no longer with us our good friends will
soon draw back, and then we shall be left in sore distress.". ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/stead/king of the jews/chapter ii jesus last journey.htm

Resources
Why is being a good person not enough to get you into heaven? | GotQuestions.org

Why does God allow bad things to happen to good people? | GotQuestions.org

What does it mean that all things work together for good? | GotQuestions.org

Good: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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