Loving a Married Man
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The topic of loving a married man is addressed in the Bible through various teachings on marriage, fidelity, and relationships. The Scriptures provide clear guidance on the sanctity of marriage and the importance of honoring the marital covenant.

Marriage as a Sacred Covenant

The Bible consistently upholds marriage as a sacred covenant between a man and a woman. In Genesis 2:24 , it is written, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This foundational verse establishes the divine intention for marriage to be an exclusive and lifelong union.

Adultery and Its Consequences

The Bible explicitly condemns adultery, which is defined as engaging in a romantic or sexual relationship with someone who is married to another person. The Seventh Commandment, found in Exodus 20:14 , states, "You shall not commit adultery." This commandment underscores the seriousness with which God views the violation of the marital bond.

Proverbs 6:32 warns of the consequences of adultery: "He who commits adultery lacks judgment; whoever does so destroys himself." The act of loving a married man in a romantic or intimate way is seen as a transgression that brings harm not only to the individuals involved but also to the broader community.

The Call to Purity and Righteousness

The New Testament reinforces the call to purity and righteousness in relationships. In 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 , Paul writes, "For it is God’s will that you should be holy: You must abstain from sexual immorality; each of you must know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in lustful passion like the Gentiles who do not know God."

This passage emphasizes the importance of self-control and the pursuit of holiness, urging believers to avoid relationships that lead to sexual immorality, including those with married individuals.

The Role of Love and Respect

While the Bible calls for love and respect in all relationships, it also delineates appropriate boundaries. Romans 13:10 states, "Love does no wrong to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law." True love seeks the well-being of others and respects the commitments they have made, including the marital vows of a married man.

Repentance and Restoration

For those who have engaged in a relationship with a married man, the Bible offers a path to repentance and restoration. 1 John 1:9 assures believers, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." Repentance involves acknowledging the wrongdoing, seeking God's forgiveness, and making amends where possible.

Conclusion

The Bible provides clear guidance on the issue of loving a married man, emphasizing the sanctity of marriage, the sinfulness of adultery, and the call to purity and righteousness. Believers are encouraged to honor the marital covenant and to seek relationships that align with God's design for love and fidelity.
Topical Bible Verses
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
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Romans 7:2
For the woman which has an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he lives; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
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Library

On the Words of the Gospel, Mark viii. 34, "If any Man Would Come ...
... this God's will; learn to love thyself by not loving thyself ... instance, my Brethren,
that ye may understand me; one man has chosen a married life, another ...
/.../sermons on selected lessons of the new testament/sermon xlvi on the words.htm

The Pure in Heart
... If he be a married man, marriage ought to teach him not ... good gift of God out of which
a man may not ... foul God's good gifts by self, and by loving yourself more ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/kingsley/the good news of god/sermon xvi the pure in.htm

The Life of Malchus, the Captive Monk.
... in my gray hairs I must lose my virgin state and become a married man? ... We shall easily
convince them we are married when they see us so loving." I confess ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/the life of malchus the.htm

Dawn in the Hills
... "He has not seen her since he married her in ... in heart, hard to please!" And to this
man she must ... so radiant a spouse, while my poor beauty-loving friend must ...
//christianbookshelf.org/miller/the city of delight/chapter vi dawn in the.htm

Living, Loving, Lasting Union
... and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them ... he holdeth us fast;
he is married to us ... This living, loving, lasting union, which we have already ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 38 1892/living loving lasting union.htm

Grace
... Well would it be for married people, if they would ... in such sad case is on the man's
side. ... gracefulness, Christ's beautiful and noble and loving character"the ...
/.../kingsley/all saints day and other sermons/sermon xx grace.htm

A Man Expects to Reap the Same Kind as He Sows.
... To whom are their daughters married? ... Nathan was sent across his path, and, young
man, Nathan will ... upon me, O God, according to thy loving kindness: according ...
//christianbookshelf.org/moody/sowing and reaping/chapter iv a man expects.htm

Letter Lv. To Amandus.
... a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it ... me about this passage when that
reverend man, Hilary, bishop ... to the Father (often a mark of loving devotion as ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter lv to amandus.htm

Given to Abstraction of Thought. Cases in Point. Opinion of ...
... After I grew to be a young man, I became very ... We were married September 11, 1856;
I was twenty years and ... that time to this she has been a loving, faithful wife ...
/.../chapter v given to abstraction.htm

Trophies of Grace
... A married woman had worn out the patience of a loving family. ... Yet he was not a
hard-hearted man, and upon the suggestion of a reconciliation, if, for six ...
/.../carpenter/the angel adjutant of twice born men/xii trophies of grace.htm

Resources
What does the Bible say about self-love, loving self? | GotQuestions.org

What does it mean to love like Jesus? | GotQuestions.org

Who is my neighbor, biblically speaking? | GotQuestions.org

Loving: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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