Loving Yourself
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Definition and Context
Loving oneself is a concept that, while not explicitly outlined as a command in the Bible, is implicitly understood through the broader biblical mandate to love others as oneself. This idea is rooted in the understanding that humans are created in the image of God (Genesis 1:27) and are therefore of inherent value and worth. The notion of self-love is often discussed in the context of maintaining a healthy self-respect and recognizing one's value in God's eyes, rather than promoting selfishness or self-centeredness.

Biblical References
The most direct biblical reference to loving oneself comes from the commandment to "love your neighbor as yourself," which appears in both the Old and New Testaments. In Leviticus 19:18, the command is first given: "Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against any of your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD." This command is reiterated by Jesus in the New Testament, emphasizing its importance. In Matthew 22:39, Jesus states, "And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’" This implies a standard of self-care and self-respect that is necessary to love others effectively.

Theological Implications
From a theological perspective, loving oneself is seen as recognizing and accepting the love that God has for each individual. Ephesians 5:29-30 provides insight into this understanding: "After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church—for we are members of His body." This passage suggests that caring for oneself is natural and aligns with the care that Christ has for His church.

Practical Application
In practical terms, loving oneself involves acknowledging one's worth as a creation of God and stewarding one's life accordingly. This includes taking care of one's physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. It is important to differentiate between healthy self-love and the sin of pride or vanity. Romans 12:3 advises, "For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you."

Challenges and Misunderstandings
A common challenge in understanding self-love from a biblical perspective is the potential for misinterpretation as endorsing selfishness. However, biblical self-love is not about placing oneself above others but about recognizing one's value in God's eyes and using that understanding to love others effectively. Philippians 2:3-4 provides guidance: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others."

Conclusion
While the Bible does not explicitly command self-love, it provides a framework for understanding the importance of recognizing one's worth and value as a creation of God. This understanding is foundational to fulfilling the command to love others as oneself, as it establishes a baseline of self-respect and care that is necessary for genuine love and service to others.
Topical Bible Verses
Psalm 139:14
I will praise you; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvelous are your works; and that my soul knows right well.
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The Seventh Chapter: Loving Jesus Above all Things
... THE INTERIOR LIFE The Seventh Chapter: Loving Jesus Above All Things. ... Cling, therefore,
to Jesus in life and death; trust yourself to the glory of Him who alone ...
/.../kempis/the imitation of christ/the seventh chapter loving jesus.htm

The Pure in Heart
... Only be selfish, and it is done at once. Be defiled and unbelieving. Defile and
foul God's good gifts by self, and by loving yourself more than what is right. ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/kingsley/the good news of god/sermon xvi the pure in.htm

Loving Advice for Anxious Seekers
... Loving Advice for Anxious Seekers. A Sermon (No.735). ... How can you make yourself tender
of heart? But, seeing that it is by faith, it is therefore by grace. ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 13 1867/loving advice for anxious seekers.htm

Letter xxi. --Different Attractions of Grace.
... rare among souls who, like you, have been called by God to unite themselves with
Him by a loving abandonment. Sometimes, you say, you feel yourself drawn to ...
/.../abandonment to divine providence/letter xxi different attractions of grace.htm

Of the Loving Fear of Spouses; a Continuation of the Same Subject.
... OF THE LOVING FEAR OF SPOUSES; A CONTINUATION OF THE SAME SUBJECT. Ah! ... Imagine to
yourself, Theotimus, a spouse of dove-like heart and having the perfection of ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter xvi of the loving.htm

Of the Loving Recollection of the Soul in Contemplation.
... Propose to yourself, Theotimus, the most holy Virgin, our Lady, when she had ... did
more increase and magnify the praises of that infinite loving-kindness, and ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter vii of the loving.htm

Impossible that Marcion's Christ Should Reprove the Faithless ...
... that Marcion's Christ Should Reprove the Faithless Generation Such Loving Consideration
for ... you have ever committed to us belonging to yourself, [4380] which ...
/.../chapter xxiii impossible that marcions christ.htm

Of the Prophecies of the Old Testament in their visible ...
... Whomsoever, therefore, you may observe to be loving these things, attach yourself
to them, so that through Christ, who became man in order that He might be the ...
/.../on the catechising of the uninstructed/chapter 27 of the prophecies of.htm

Love of Ourselves and of Our Neighbor.
... as has been shown, what is to prevent one who loves God from loving himself ... Thou
shalt love thy neighbor as thyself." [128] Now you love yourself suitably when ...
/.../chapter 26 name of ourselves.htm

Letter ii. --Interior Troubles.
... confidence. And you, instead of responding to this loving call allow yourself
to be tyrannised over, and martyrised by a slavish fear. I ...
/.../de caussade/abandonment to divine providence/letter ii interior troubles.htm

Resources
How can a loving God send someone to hell? | GotQuestions.org

Why is loving others often so difficult? | GotQuestions.org

Is loving God an emotion, a feeling, or a decision? | GotQuestions.org

Loving: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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