Marital Love
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Marital love, as depicted in the Bible, is a profound and sacred bond between a husband and wife, reflecting the divine relationship between Christ and His Church. This love is characterized by commitment, selflessness, and mutual respect, forming the foundation of a godly marriage.

Biblical Foundation

The concept of marital love is rooted in the creation narrative. In Genesis 2:24 , it is written, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This verse establishes the principle of unity and the intimate bond that marriage entails. The "one flesh" union signifies not only physical intimacy but also emotional and spiritual oneness.

Love as a Commandment

The New Testament further elaborates on the nature of marital love. In Ephesians 5:25 , husbands are instructed, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." This commandment sets a high standard for husbands, calling them to love sacrificially and unconditionally, mirroring Christ's love for the Church. Similarly, wives are encouraged to respect their husbands, as seen in Ephesians 5:33 : "However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."

Characteristics of Marital Love

1. Sacrificial: Marital love involves self-giving and putting the needs of one's spouse above one's own. This sacrificial nature is exemplified in Christ's love for the Church, as He laid down His life for her.

2. Faithful: Fidelity is a cornerstone of marital love. Proverbs 5:18-19 advises, "May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth... may you ever be captivated by her love." This passage underscores the importance of remaining faithful and cherishing one's spouse.

3. Enduring: Marital love is enduring and steadfast, weathering the trials and challenges of life. 1 Corinthians 13:7 states, "It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." This enduring nature is essential for a lasting marriage.

4. Mutual Respect: Respect is a vital component of marital love. 1 Peter 3:7 instructs husbands to "treat your wives with consideration as a delicate vessel, and with honor as fellow heirs of the gracious gift of life." This mutual respect fosters a harmonious and loving relationship.

The Role of Intimacy

The Song of Solomon celebrates the beauty and passion of marital love, portraying the intimate and affectionate relationship between a husband and wife. This book highlights the importance of physical and emotional intimacy within marriage, affirming that such love is a gift from God.

Challenges and Growth

Marital love is not without its challenges. Couples are called to grow together in love, overcoming obstacles through patience, forgiveness, and prayer. Colossians 3:13-14 encourages believers to "bear with one another and forgive any complaint you may have against someone else. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which is the bond of perfect unity."

Conclusion

Marital love, as outlined in Scripture, is a divine institution designed to reflect God's love and faithfulness. It is a covenantal relationship that requires dedication, sacrifice, and a commitment to grow together in Christ. Through the power of the Holy Spirit, couples can cultivate a love that honors God and blesses their union.
Topical Bible Verses
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
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Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
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Proverbs 18:22
Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of the LORD.
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Proverbs 5:18-19
Let your fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of your youth.
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Colossians 3:19
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
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The Service to a Female Martyr.
... Thee; but as unblemished sacrifice do Thou receive me that in love sacrificed myself ...
and wall, and we unceasingly doxologize thee, O innocent of marital life. ...
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The Service Common to Two and Many Nuns.
... it unto those remaining on earth having bound yourselves with love spiritual; therefore ...
voluntarily found His abode in the womb innocent of marital life, and ...
/.../anonymous/the general menaion/chapter xxiii the service common.htm

General Service to a Nun-Martyr.
... Having bound thy soul with love unto Christ, thou, as glorious disciple of the ... As
the all-spotless Bride of the Creator, as the innocent of marital life Mother ...
/.../anonymous/the general menaion/chapter xxiv general service to.htm

The Hardening of Nations.
... but universal, affecting all, who, being in contact with the divine Love, are not
saved ... This is evident from the fact that the marital relation is entered upon ...
/.../kuyper/the work of the holy spirit/xxxv the hardening of nations.htm

The General Service to one Hieromartyr
... Faithfully and with love having come together in memory of the sacred sufferer,
let ... pure Virgin, hast become known as the Mother, innocent of marital life, of ...
/.../anonymous/the general menaion/chapter xvi the general service.htm

The General Service to a Nun.
... and the Founder of the church, do Thou stablish me in Thy love, Thou-the ... the
Theotokion:O pure, all-undefiled and innocent of marital life, the only one that ...
/.../anonymous/the general menaion/chapter xxii the general service.htm

The Service Common to Two and Many Female Martyrs.
... angels have been certainly amazed at your hearty-zeal, divine love and the ... Glory
...Both now ...the Theotokion: O blessed Mary, innocent of marital life-refuge ...
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The Service Common to Two or More Monks.
... Having given yourselves up entirely unto the love of Christ and assiduously endeavoured
to ... shone forth from the womb of one inexperienced in marital life, and ...
/.../anonymous/the general menaion/chapter xiii the service common.htm

The Service Common to the Festivals of the Holy virgin.
... scorner, lest he hate thee; rebuke a wise man, and he will love thee ... God, placed
our trust, O Theotokos, most highly praised and innocent of marital intercourse ...
/.../anonymous/the general menaion/chapter ii the service common.htm

The General Service to Two or Many Monk Martyrs.
... and as martyrs, since the sword did not separate you from the love of Christ ... As the
all-undefiled Bride of the Creator, as the innocent of marital life Mother ...
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Resources
Marital Unity ' Article Index | GotQuestions.org

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What does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage? | GotQuestions.org

Marital: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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