Topical Encyclopedia Esau, the elder son of Isaac and Rebekah, is a significant figure in the biblical narrative, particularly in the context of his marriages, which brought grief to his parents. Esau's choice of wives is a pivotal moment that highlights the cultural and spiritual tensions within the patriarchal family.Background Esau, known for his ruddy appearance and skill as a hunter, was the firstborn of Isaac and Rebekah. Despite his birthright, he sold it to his younger brother Jacob for a meal, demonstrating a lack of regard for the spiritual heritage of his family (Genesis 25:29-34). This act foreshadowed further decisions that would cause distress to his parents. Marriages to Hittite Women Esau's marriages are first mentioned in Genesis 26:34-35: "When Esau was forty years old, he took as wives Judith the daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and Basemath the daughter of Elon the Hittite. And they were a source of grief to Isaac and Rebekah" . These unions with Hittite women, who were part of the Canaanite peoples, were contrary to the desires of his parents, who were concerned with maintaining the purity of their lineage and adherence to the covenantal promises given to Abraham. The Hittites, like other Canaanite tribes, were known for their idolatrous practices, which were in direct opposition to the worship of Yahweh. Esau's decision to marry outside of his family's faith tradition was seen as a rejection of the covenantal values that Isaac and Rebekah held dear. This choice not only caused personal grief but also threatened the spiritual integrity of the family line. Further Marriages In an attempt to appease his parents after realizing their displeasure, Esau took additional wives. Genesis 28:8-9 records, "So Esau realized that the daughters of Canaan were displeasing to his father Isaac. So he went to Ishmael and married Mahalath, the sister of Nebaioth and daughter of Ishmael son of Abraham, in addition to the wives he already had" . This marriage to a daughter of Ishmael, Abraham's other son, was an attempt to align more closely with his family's heritage. However, it was not enough to mend the rift caused by his earlier choices. Impact on Family Dynamics Esau's marriages had lasting implications for the family dynamics. The grief experienced by Isaac and Rebekah over Esau's choices is indicative of the broader struggle to maintain faithfulness to God's promises amidst cultural pressures. Rebekah's lament in Genesis 27:46 further underscores the depth of her distress: "I am weary of my life because of these Hittite women. If Jacob takes a wife from among the women of this land, from Hittite women like these, what good is my life?" . This statement reflects the profound impact Esau's marriages had on the family, influencing Rebekah's actions to secure a different path for Jacob. Conclusion Esau's marriages serve as a cautionary tale within the biblical narrative, illustrating the consequences of choices that deviate from the covenantal path. His decisions brought sorrow to his parents and complicated the fulfillment of God's promises to Abraham's descendants. Nave's Topical Index Genesis 26:35Which were a grief of mind to Isaac and to Rebekah. Nave's Topical Index Library Jacob, a Prince of God. Chapter xxvi Chapter xxxiv Chapter xxxv Adonijah "Thou Art Now the Blessed of the Lord. " No Compromise Against Jovinianus. Resources Who was Jacob in the Bible? | GotQuestions.orgWhat does Israel mean in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org What is the difference between a blessing and a birthright (Genesis 25)? | GotQuestions.org Bible Concordance • Bible Dictionary • Bible Encyclopedia • Topical Bible • Bible Thesuarus Subtopics Esau is Defrauded of his Father's Blessing by Jacob Esau with Jacob, Buries his Father Esau: His Marriage To, a Grief to Isaac and Rebekah Esau: His Name Used to Denote his Descendants and Their Country Esau: Hostility of Descendants of, Toward the Descendants of Jacob Esau: Meets Jacob on the Return of the Latter from Haran Esau: Mount of Edom, Called Mount of Esau Esau: Sells his Birthright for a Single Meal Related Terms |