Esau: His Marriage To, a Grief to Isaac and Rebekah
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Esau, the elder son of Isaac and Rebekah, is a significant figure in the biblical narrative, particularly in the context of his marriages, which brought grief to his parents. Esau's choice of wives is a pivotal moment that highlights the cultural and spiritual tensions within the patriarchal family.

Background

Esau, known for his ruddy appearance and skill as a hunter, was the firstborn of Isaac and Rebekah. Despite his birthright, he sold it to his younger brother Jacob for a meal, demonstrating a lack of regard for the spiritual heritage of his family (Genesis 25:29-34). This act foreshadowed further decisions that would cause distress to his parents.

Marriages to Hittite Women

Esau's marriages are first mentioned in Genesis 26:34-35: "When Esau was forty years old, he took as wives Judith the daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and Basemath the daughter of Elon the Hittite. And they were a source of grief to Isaac and Rebekah" . These unions with Hittite women, who were part of the Canaanite peoples, were contrary to the desires of his parents, who were concerned with maintaining the purity of their lineage and adherence to the covenantal promises given to Abraham.

The Hittites, like other Canaanite tribes, were known for their idolatrous practices, which were in direct opposition to the worship of Yahweh. Esau's decision to marry outside of his family's faith tradition was seen as a rejection of the covenantal values that Isaac and Rebekah held dear. This choice not only caused personal grief but also threatened the spiritual integrity of the family line.

Further Marriages

In an attempt to appease his parents after realizing their displeasure, Esau took additional wives. Genesis 28:8-9 records, "So Esau realized that the daughters of Canaan were displeasing to his father Isaac. So he went to Ishmael and married Mahalath, the sister of Nebaioth and daughter of Ishmael son of Abraham, in addition to the wives he already had" . This marriage to a daughter of Ishmael, Abraham's other son, was an attempt to align more closely with his family's heritage. However, it was not enough to mend the rift caused by his earlier choices.

Impact on Family Dynamics

Esau's marriages had lasting implications for the family dynamics. The grief experienced by Isaac and Rebekah over Esau's choices is indicative of the broader struggle to maintain faithfulness to God's promises amidst cultural pressures. Rebekah's lament in Genesis 27:46 further underscores the depth of her distress: "I am weary of my life because of these Hittite women. If Jacob takes a wife from among the women of this land, from Hittite women like these, what good is my life?" . This statement reflects the profound impact Esau's marriages had on the family, influencing Rebekah's actions to secure a different path for Jacob.

Conclusion

Esau's marriages serve as a cautionary tale within the biblical narrative, illustrating the consequences of choices that deviate from the covenantal path. His decisions brought sorrow to his parents and complicated the fulfillment of God's promises to Abraham's descendants.
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Genesis 26:35
Which were a grief of mind to Isaac and to Rebekah.
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Jacob, a Prince of God.
... younger daughter could not be given in marriage before the ... his son once more, was
there in his tent waiting ... an hundred and eighty years old, and Esau came, and ...
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Chapter xxvi
... morath r?�ach ""bitterness of spirit") resulted from this marriage. ... mother made tasty
things as his father loved ... Rebekah took the garments of Esau, her elder ...
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Chapter xxxiv
... been heeded by the villagers in the proposition on which his marriage hinged ... his
people, an old man and sated with days; and Esau and Jacob his sons buried ...
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Chapter xxxv
... an old man and sated with days; and Esau and Jacob his ... with days." He had seen as
many as his soul might ... v. Genesis 35:22 describes an old marriage custom of ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/leupold/exposition of genesis volume 1/chapter xxxv.htm

Adonijah
... must have his savoury food, just as his son, Esau, who would sell his birthright
for a ... to the adjuration in the wedding service"marriage, therefore, is ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/milligan/men of the bible some lesser-known/adonijah.htm

"Thou Art Now the Blessed of the Lord. "
... Esau's double marriage with Hittite women was a grief to his father and to his
mother; and I mention this because there may be some of God's ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 38 1892/thou art now the blessed.htm

No Compromise
... what use Paul makes of Sarah and Hagar, of Esau and Jacob ... man, and to win it has
laid down his life ... Here is a heavenly marriage, and right royal nuptials placed ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 34 1888/no compromise.htm

Against Jovinianus.
... of Joseph, and [4382] sundry presents which Esau who was ... for him; but Joshua like
one on his way to ... For marriage ends at death; virginity thereafter begins to ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/against jovinianus.htm

Resources
Who was Jacob in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

What does Israel mean in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

What is the difference between a blessing and a birthright (Genesis 25)? | GotQuestions.org

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