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The reconciliation between Esau and Jacob is a significant event in the biblical narrative, illustrating themes of forgiveness, restoration, and divine providence. This event is primarily recorded in the Book of Genesis, chapters 32 and 33, and serves as a profound example of familial reconciliation after years of estrangement and conflict.

Background

The conflict between Esau and Jacob began even before their birth, as described in Genesis 25:22-23, where Rebekah, their mother, was told by the LORD that "two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you will be separated; one people will be stronger than the other, and the older will serve the younger." This prophecy set the stage for the tension between the brothers. Jacob, the younger, later deceived his father Isaac to receive the blessing intended for Esau, the firstborn (Genesis 27:27-29). This act of deception led to Esau's deep anger and a vow to kill Jacob, prompting Jacob to flee to Haran (Genesis 27:41-43).

The Journey Toward Reconciliation

Years later, after Jacob had prospered in Haran and was commanded by God to return to his homeland (Genesis 31:3), he prepared to meet Esau. Aware of the potential danger, Jacob sent messengers ahead to Esau with gifts, hoping to find favor in his brother's eyes (Genesis 32:3-5). Jacob's fear and distress are evident as he prays for deliverance from Esau, acknowledging his unworthiness of God's steadfast love and faithfulness (Genesis 32:9-12).

The Night of Wrestling

Before the encounter with Esau, Jacob experienced a transformative night of wrestling with a mysterious man, who is often interpreted as an angel or a theophany of God. This event, recorded in Genesis 32:24-30, resulted in Jacob receiving a new name, Israel, meaning "he struggles with God," and a blessing. This encounter left Jacob with a limp, symbolizing his changed character and dependence on God.

The Meeting

In Genesis 33, the long-awaited meeting between Esau and Jacob unfolds. Contrary to Jacob's fears, Esau approaches with a welcoming demeanor, running to meet Jacob, embracing him, and weeping (Genesis 33:4). This unexpected response highlights Esau's forgiveness and the softening of his heart, which can be seen as an act of divine intervention. Jacob, in turn, expresses his relief and gratitude, saying, "To see your face is like seeing the face of God, now that you have received me favorably" (Genesis 33:10).

The Exchange of Gifts

Jacob insists on giving Esau gifts as a gesture of reconciliation, despite Esau's initial refusal (Genesis 33:8-11). This exchange signifies Jacob's desire to make amends and restore their relationship. The acceptance of the gifts by Esau symbolizes the completion of their reconciliation.

Significance

The reconciliation between Esau and Jacob is a powerful testament to the possibility of healing and restoration in relationships marred by betrayal and animosity. It underscores the importance of humility, repentance, and the willingness to forgive. The narrative also reflects God's sovereignty and faithfulness in fulfilling His promises, as the reconciliation paves the way for the unfolding of God's plan for the descendants of Jacob, who would become the nation of Israel.

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Genesis 33:4,11
And Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck, and kissed him: and they wept.
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Jacob and Esau
... hand: then will I slay my brother Jacob." There is ... in saying, that if God hated Esau,
it was ... There was a reconciliation between providence and promise; and if ...
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Chapter xxxiii
... of the gift of the person seeking reconciliation would have ... was God Himself who had
changed Esau's heart to ... thought when he draws a parallel between the relief ...
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How the Mingling of Love and Sorrow Takes Place in Contrition.
... reply, what difference is there between this movement ... of complacency, but by displeasure,
repentance, reparation, reconciliation. ... of love, as Esau's foot was ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter xx how the mingling.htm

Chapter xxv
... KC) Isaac had succeeded in effecting a reconciliation and an ... And Isaac loved Esau,
for game pleased him. ... The disparity between the two lads became increasingly ...
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Genesis
... he had wronged; and besides reckoning with Esau, he has ... Into the later years of Jacob
is woven the ... at last comes the gracious reconciliation between Joseph and ...
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The Antiquities of the Jews
... CHAPTER 1. How Esau And Jacob, Isaac's Sons Divided ... CHAPTER 1. The War Between
Aristobulus And Hyrcanus ... Of Himself Before Caesar And Reconciliation To His ...
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The Dispensation of the Divine Favours Reconciled with the ...
... promises on the part of Esau; the temporary ... harmony and agreement which subsists
between these sublime ... beseeching men to enter into reconciliation, and this ...
/.../a theodicy or vindication of the divine glory/chapter v the dispensation of.htm

Introduction
... the Old Testament without regard for the distinction between the Old ... 9. Reconciliation
with Esau; Settling in Canaan (33:1-20).10 ... The History of Esau (chapter 36 ...
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"And the Redeemer Shall Come unto Zion, and unto them that Turn,"
... such a repugnancy, as there is no reconciliation of them. ... distance, I may say
contrariety and enmity, between us and ... it seem to have the hand of Esau; we find ...
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Aron, Brother of Moses, 486, 487.
... His Church, [283]652; warfare between Christians and ... cleanses, [370]438; necessary
to reconciliation, [371]522. ... two names, [592]369; Jacob and Esau, two nations ...
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