Wife: Hated
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In the biblical context, the term "hated" when applied to a wife often refers to a situation where a husband shows preference or favoritism towards another wife, leading to neglect or diminished affection for the "hated" wife. This concept is primarily explored in the Old Testament, where polygamous marriages were more common.

Leah and Rachel

The most prominent example of a "hated" wife is found in the account of Jacob, Leah, and Rachel. Jacob, having been deceived by his father-in-law Laban, married Leah before Rachel, whom he loved deeply. Genesis 29:30-31 states, "Jacob slept with Rachel as well, and indeed, he loved Rachel more than Leah. So he worked for Laban another seven years. When the LORD saw that Leah was unloved, He opened her womb; but Rachel was barren." Here, the term "unloved" is often translated as "hated" in other versions, indicating a lack of affection compared to Rachel.

Legal Implications in Deuteronomy

The Mosaic Law addresses the issue of a "hated" wife in the context of inheritance rights. Deuteronomy 21:15-17 provides guidance: "If a man has two wives, one loved and the other unloved, and both bear him sons, but the firstborn is the son of the unloved wife, when he wills his estate to his sons, he must not give the rights of the firstborn to the son of the loved wife in preference to the actual firstborn, the son of the unloved wife. Instead, he must acknowledge the son of the unloved wife as the firstborn by giving him a double portion of all he has. That son is the first sign of his father’s strength. The right of the firstborn belongs to him." This law ensures that the rights of the firstborn are protected, regardless of the father's personal feelings towards the mother.

Cultural and Theological Considerations

The concept of a "hated" wife reflects the cultural and familial dynamics of ancient Israelite society, where polygamy was practiced and social status could be influenced by a husband's affections. Theologically, these narratives and laws underscore the importance of justice and fairness, even in complex family situations. The biblical text often highlights God's concern for those who are marginalized or less favored, as seen in His compassion towards Leah by blessing her with children.

Symbolic Interpretations

Some biblical scholars and theologians have explored symbolic interpretations of the "hated" wife motif. For instance, Leah and Rachel have been seen as representing different aspects of Israel's relationship with God, with Leah symbolizing the less favored but ultimately blessed covenant. This allegorical reading emphasizes God's sovereignty and the unexpected ways in which He fulfills His promises.

New Testament Reflections

While the New Testament does not directly address the concept of a "hated" wife, it does emphasize the principles of love, respect, and mutual submission within marriage. Ephesians 5:25 instructs, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." This teaching reflects a shift towards monogamous relationships characterized by sacrificial love, contrasting with the Old Testament narratives of favoritism and neglect.
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Genesis 29:31-33
And when the LORD saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb: but Rachel was barren.
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Greek
3404. miseo -- to hate
... love less' than the Lord) his own father and mother and wife and children ... from misos
(hatred) Definition to hate NASB Word Usage hate (13), hated (12), hateful ...
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How Antipater was Hated by all the Nation [Of the Jews] For
... CHAPTER 1. How Antipater Was Hated By All The Nation [Of The Jews] For. ... of Alexas
for her husband; so she submitted to Julia as being Caesar's wife; and besides ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 1 how antipater was.htm

Antipater Becomes Intolerable. He is Sent to Rome, and Carries ...
... of women in the court, which excited new disturbances; for Pheroras's wife, together
with ... the king's two daughters, [44] on which account the king hated her to ...
/.../chapter 29 antipater becomes intolerable.htm

Whether the Reason for Divorce was Hatred for the Wife?
... Objection 4: Further, hatred may be caused by the virtue of the person hated. ... Objection
5: Further, "If a man marry a wife and afterwards hate her, and seek ...
/.../aquinas/summa theologica/whether the reason for divorce.htm

The Sixth and Last Point which I am Told that He Brings against Me ...
... has not left anything unreported) is that, in the interpretation of the Apostle's
words, "He that loveth his wife loveth himself, for no one ever hated his own ...
/.../28 the sixth and last.htm

But Let us Come to These Two Commentaries which He Alone Excepts ...
... on the Epistle of Paul to the Ephesians, on the passage in which it is said, "He
who loveth his own wife loveth himself, for no man ever hated his own flesh ...
/.../23 but let us come.htm

How He Fled to a Monastery when his Wife Would not Consent.
... hated)"to these, I say, He joined also the mention of wives, saying: "And everyone
that hath left house, or brethren or sisters or father or mother or wife ...
/.../cassian/the conferences of john cassian/chapter ix how he fled.htm

To Monna Agnese who was the Wife of Messer Orso Malavolti
... LETTERS TO MONNA AGNESE WHO WAS THE WIFE OF MESSER ORSO MALAVOLTI. ... It is hated by
God, it holds its neighbour in aversion, and has neither knowledge nor desire ...
/.../benincasa/letters of catherine benincasa/to monna agnese who was.htm

How Antipater is Hated of all Men; and How the King Espouses the ...
... He also considered how he was himself hated by the nation, and how they pitied ... was
his sister, and who, by the means of Julia, Caesar's wife, earnestly desired ...
/.../chapter 28 how antipater is.htm

Pheroras's Wife is Accused by his Freedmen, as Guilty of Poisoning ...
... The high priest's daughter also, who was the king's wife, was accused to have been ...
were, that the roads were exactly guarded, and that men hated Antipater; for ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 4 pherorass wife is.htm

Concerning the Famine that Happened in Judea and Syria; and How ...
... thereby not only remove the ill opinion of those that formerly hated him, but ... He
also fell in love again, and married another wife, not suffering his reason to ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 9 concerning the famine.htm

Resources
What does it mean to “remember Lot's wife” in Luke 17:32? | GotQuestions.org

Is it biblical to call the wife of a pastor, elder, or bishop the First Lady of the church? | GotQuestions.org

What are the roles of the husband and wife in a family? | GotQuestions.org

Wife: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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