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In the biblical context, the role of a wife as a helper is deeply rooted in the creation narrative and is further elaborated upon in various passages throughout Scripture. The concept of a wife as a helper is first introduced in the Book of Genesis, where God creates woman to be a suitable helper for man.

Creation and Purpose

Genesis 2:18 states, "The LORD God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make for him a suitable helper.'" This verse establishes the foundational role of the wife as a helper, indicating that her creation was intended to complement and support her husband. The Hebrew word used for "helper" is "ezer," which implies a partnership and support system, rather than subordination or inferiority.

Partnership and Unity

The role of the wife as a helper is further emphasized in the unity and partnership described in Genesis 2:24 : "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This union signifies a deep, intimate partnership where the wife plays a crucial role in the mutual support and fulfillment of the marital relationship.

Proverbs 31: The Virtuous Wife

Proverbs 31 provides a detailed description of the virtuous wife, highlighting her role as a helper in various aspects of life. Proverbs 31:10-12 states, "A wife of noble character, who can find? She is far more precious than rubies. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he lacks nothing of value. She brings him good and not harm all the days of her life." This passage underscores the trust, value, and goodness a wife brings to her husband, reinforcing her role as a supportive and integral partner.

New Testament Teachings

The New Testament also addresses the role of the wife as a helper within the context of marriage. Ephesians 5:22-24 instructs, "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything." This passage highlights the importance of mutual respect and submission within the marital relationship, with the wife playing a supportive role akin to the church's relationship with Christ.

1 Peter 3:1-6: Conduct and Influence

1 Peter 3:1-6 further elaborates on the conduct of wives, emphasizing their influence and role as helpers through their behavior: "Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands so that, even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives when they see your pure and reverent demeanor." This passage highlights the powerful influence a wife can have through her conduct, serving as a helper not only in practical matters but also in spiritual and moral guidance.

Conclusion

The biblical portrayal of a wife as a helper encompasses a multifaceted role that includes partnership, support, and influence. From the creation narrative to the teachings of the New Testament, the role of the wife is depicted as one of mutual respect, unity, and complementary support within the marriage covenant.
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Genesis 2:18,20
And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
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To Monna Agnese who was the Wife of Messer Orso Malavolti
... LETTERS TO MONNA AGNESE WHO WAS THE WIFE OF MESSER ORSO MALAVOLTI. ... This is beyond
help, unless a man recognizes himself, how he has wronged God, and cuts down ...
/.../benincasa/letters of catherine benincasa/to monna agnese who was.htm

Joseph's Eagerness to Help Others
... THE OLD TESTAMENT JOSEPH'S EAGERNESS TO HELP OTHERS. ... After these honors had come
to Joseph, his master's wife tried to tempt him to be unfaithful to his trust. ...
/.../sherman/the childrens bible/josephs eagerness to help others.htm

The Cure of Simon's Wife's Mother.
... THE CURE OF SIMON'S WIFE'S MOTHER ... at least"across all the dreary flats of distress
or dark mountains of pain, and therefore those who would help their fellows ...
/.../macdonald/miracles of our lord/iii the cure of simons.htm

The Bones and Flesh of Wisdom; the Side Out of which the Spiritual ...
... die again, coming down from heaven, and being "joined to His wife," the Church ... of
Christ, that is, after His incarnation and passion, prepares a help-meet for ...
/.../chapter viii the bones and flesh.htm

What Old Bill could not Do
... of trying to overcome the habit, he had finally turned to God for help, and that
he ... He knew what it meant to fail, and as he pondered he thought of his wife. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/naylor/heart talks/talk eighteen what old bill.htm

A Good Wife.
... But virtue has helped many; for every good wife. ... And so forth. For with perfect
propriety Scripture has said that woman is given by God as "an help" to man. ...
/.../clement/the stromata or miscellanies/chapter xx a good wife.htm

Here Followeth a Discourse Between My Wife and the Judges, with ...
... But yet, my wife being encouraged by the high-sheriff, did venture once more into ...
said, My Lord, I have four small children, that cannot help themselves, one ...
/.../grace abounding to the chief of sinners/here followeth a discourse between.htm

The Heart's Desire Given to Help Mission Work in China.
... he should day by day, expressly for the purpose, retire with his Christian wife,
that they ... out for answers to his prayers, and expect that God would help him.3 ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/muller/answers to prayer/the hearts desire given to.htm

1870-1871. Workers' Meetings at Home of Industry --Training Home ...
... from want of help in her indoor labours. "Within easy reach of this house stood
a much smaller one, built by the owner of the farm for himself and his wife to ...
/.../lowe/gods answers/chapter iii 1870-1871 workers meetings.htm

On Marriage.
... For a wife's care and the assiduity of her constancy appear to exceed the endurance
of all other ... And in truth, according to Scripture, she is a needful help. ...
/.../clement/the stromata or miscellanies/chapter xxiii on marriage.htm

Resources
What does it mean to be a godly wife? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about being a Christian wife? | GotQuestions.org

What can we learn from the account of Potiphar's wife? | GotQuestions.org

Wife: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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