Oral Sex
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Oral sex, defined as the stimulation of the genitalia using the mouth, is a topic not explicitly addressed in the Bible. However, the absence of direct references does not preclude the application of biblical principles to this intimate act. Within a conservative Christian framework, the discussion of oral sex often centers around the broader biblical teachings on sexuality, marriage, and purity.

Biblical Context of Sexuality

The Bible presents sexuality as a gift from God, intended to be expressed within the confines of marriage between a man and a woman. Genesis 2:24 states, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This foundational verse underscores the sanctity and exclusivity of the marital relationship, where sexual intimacy is both a physical and spiritual union.

Purity and Holiness

Scripture consistently calls believers to a standard of purity and holiness in all aspects of life, including sexual conduct. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 instructs, "It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: You should avoid sexual immorality; each of you should know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in lustful passion like the Gentiles who do not know God." This passage emphasizes the importance of self-control and the avoidance of sexual immorality, which is often interpreted to include any sexual activity outside the bounds of marriage.

Marital Intimacy

Within marriage, sexual intimacy is encouraged and celebrated. The Song of Solomon, a poetic book of the Bible, vividly describes the beauty and passion of marital love. While the book uses metaphorical language, it highlights the joy and fulfillment found in the sexual union of husband and wife. Proverbs 5:18-19 advises, "May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth...may her breasts satisfy you always; may you be captivated by her love forever." This passage suggests that sexual pleasure within marriage is a blessing and should be enjoyed.

Considerations for Oral Sex

In considering the appropriateness of oral sex within marriage, several biblical principles can be applied:

1. Mutual Consent and Love: Ephesians 5:25 instructs, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." This love is selfless and sacrificial, suggesting that any sexual act within marriage should be consensual and considerate of each partner's comfort and boundaries.

2. Purity and Honor: Hebrews 13:4 states, "Marriage should be honored by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." This verse underscores the importance of maintaining purity and honor in marital relations, which can guide couples in discerning what is appropriate.

3. Avoidance of Lust and Immorality: As previously mentioned, believers are called to avoid lustful passions and sexual immorality. Couples should ensure that their sexual practices do not lead to lustful thoughts or actions that are contrary to biblical teachings.

Conclusion

While the Bible does not specifically mention oral sex, the principles of love, purity, and mutual respect within marriage provide a framework for couples to consider its appropriateness. Each couple is encouraged to seek God's guidance and wisdom in their intimate relationship, ensuring that their actions align with biblical teachings and honor God.
Topical Bible Verses
1 John 2:16
For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
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1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man does is without the body; but he that commits fornication sins against his own body.
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Ephesians 4:19
Who being past feeling have given themselves over to lasciviousness, to work all uncleanness with greediness.
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Faustus Recurs to the Genealogical Difficulty and Insists that ...
... On what evidence, said I, oral or written, am I to believe this? ... the law;" [980]
that is, a woman in the Hebrew sense, not a wife, but one of the female sex. ...
/.../faustus recurs to the genealogical.htm

Philo of Alexandria, the Rabbis, and the Gospels - the Final ...
... fowls, creeping things, plants, stones, elements, substances, conditions, even sex -
and so a ... seems to point out not only its descent by oral tradition, but ...
/.../the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter iv philo of alexandria.htm

The Learned Pagans had Means and Opportunities of Informing ...
... III. Heathens therefore of every age, sex, and quality, born in the most different
climates ... as the living oracle of the church; and as his oral testimony lasted ...
/.../sect v the learned pagans.htm

The Epistles of Paul.
... by word nor by letter as from us:" that is, neither by oral teaching nor ... apart for
special service in the church, performing for their own sex duties analogous ...
/.../barrows/companion to the bible/chapter xxx the epistles of.htm

Summa Theologica
Summa Theologica. <. Summa Theologica Saint Thomas Aquinas. Table
of Contents. Title Page. Whether, besides philosophy, any ...
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part ii
My Life in Christ. <. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/calvin/my life in christ/part ii.htm

Resources
Is it wrong for a married couple to have sex just for pleasure? | GotQuestions.org

Is cyber-sex / phone sex a sin? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about anal sex? What is sodomy according to the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

Sex: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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