Sex and not Married
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In the context of biblical teachings, sexual relations outside the covenant of marriage are addressed with significant concern. The Bible consistently upholds marriage as the appropriate context for sexual intimacy, emphasizing the sanctity and exclusivity of the marital bond.

Biblical Foundations

1. Creation Ordinance: The foundation for sexual relations within marriage is established in the creation narrative. Genesis 2:24 states, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This passage underscores the divine intention for sexual union to occur within the marriage covenant.

2. Commandments and Law: The Ten Commandments include directives that implicitly and explicitly address sexual conduct. Exodus 20:14 commands, "You shall not commit adultery," which traditionally has been understood to prohibit not only adultery but also fornication and other forms of sexual immorality.

3. New Testament Teachings: The New Testament reiterates and expands upon these principles. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 , Paul exhorts believers, "Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a man can commit is outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body." This passage highlights the unique nature of sexual sin and its impact on the individual.

4. Marriage as a Covenant: Hebrews 13:4 affirms, "Marriage should be honored by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." This verse emphasizes the honor and purity expected within the marriage relationship, contrasting it with the consequences of sexual immorality.

Moral and Ethical Implications

1. Purity and Holiness: The call to sexual purity is a recurring theme in Scripture. Believers are encouraged to live lives that reflect holiness, as seen in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 : "For it is God’s will that you should be holy: You must abstain from sexual immorality; each of you must know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in lustful passion like the Gentiles who do not know God."

2. Body as a Temple: The body is described as a temple of the Holy Spirit, further emphasizing the need for sexual purity. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 states, "Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God with your body."

3. Consequences of Sexual Sin: The Bible warns of both spiritual and practical consequences of engaging in sexual relations outside of marriage. Proverbs 6:32 warns, "He who commits adultery lacks judgment; whoever does so destroys himself."

Pastoral and Community Guidance

1. Repentance and Restoration: The biblical narrative offers hope for those who have engaged in sexual immorality. Repentance and forgiveness are available through Christ, as seen in 1 John 1:9 : "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

2. Support and Accountability: The Christian community is encouraged to support individuals in maintaining sexual purity. Galatians 6:1-2 advises, "Brothers, if someone is caught in a trespass, you who are spiritual should restore him with a spirit of gentleness. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."

3. Teaching and Discipleship: Churches are tasked with teaching biblical principles regarding sexuality and marriage, equipping believers to live according to God’s design. Titus 2:11-12 instructs, "For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all men. It instructs us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live sensible, upright, and godly lives in the present age."

In summary, the Bible presents a clear framework for understanding sexual relations within the context of marriage, emphasizing purity, holiness, and the transformative power of grace for those who seek to align their lives with biblical teachings.
Topical Bible Verses
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that you should abstain from fornication:
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1 Corinthians 6:13
Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.
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Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
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Resources
What does the Bible say about sex before marriage? | GotQuestions.org

Is sex a sin? | GotQuestions.org

Premarital sex why are Christians so strongly against it? | GotQuestions.org

Sex: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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