Trust in Marriage
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Trust is a foundational element in the institution of marriage, as depicted in the Bible. It is the confidence and reliance on the integrity, strength, and ability of one's spouse, fostering a secure and loving relationship. Trust in marriage is not only a practical necessity but also a spiritual principle that reflects the relationship between Christ and the Church.

Biblical Foundations

The Bible provides numerous insights into the importance of trust within marriage. In Ephesians 5:22-33, the Apostle Paul outlines the roles of husbands and wives, emphasizing mutual respect and love. Husbands are called to love their wives "just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her" (Ephesians 5:25). This sacrificial love is rooted in trust, as it requires a husband to prioritize his wife's well-being above his own.

Similarly, wives are instructed to respect their husbands, which involves trusting their leadership and decisions. Ephesians 5:33 states, "Nevertheless, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband" . This mutual respect and love create a foundation of trust that strengthens the marital bond.

Trust and Fidelity

Trust in marriage is closely linked to fidelity. The Bible explicitly condemns adultery, as seen in the Ten Commandments: "You shall not commit adultery" (Exodus 20:14). Adultery breaches the trust between spouses and undermines the sanctity of marriage. Proverbs 5:15-19 encourages spouses to find satisfaction and joy in each other, warning against the allure of infidelity.

The account of Hosea and Gomer in the Book of Hosea serves as a poignant illustration of trust and forgiveness in marriage. Despite Gomer's unfaithfulness, Hosea's commitment to her reflects God's unwavering love and faithfulness to His people. This narrative underscores the possibility of restoring trust through forgiveness and reconciliation.

Communication and Trust

Effective communication is vital for building and maintaining trust in marriage. James 1:19 advises, "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger" . Open and honest communication allows spouses to express their needs, concerns, and expectations, reducing misunderstandings and fostering trust.

Proverbs 31:11 highlights the trust a husband places in a virtuous wife: "The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will lack nothing of value" . This verse underscores the importance of trust in a wife's character and capabilities, contributing to a harmonious and prosperous household.

Trust and Unity

Trust in marriage is essential for unity and partnership. Genesis 2:24 describes the marital union: "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh" . This unity requires trust, as spouses must rely on each other to navigate life's challenges together.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 extols the benefits of partnership, stating, "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor" . Trust enables spouses to support and uplift each other, creating a resilient and enduring partnership.

Spiritual Trust

Ultimately, trust in marriage is a reflection of one's trust in God. Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages believers to "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding" . By placing their trust in God, spouses can cultivate a marriage that honors Him and reflects His love and faithfulness.

In summary, trust is an indispensable component of a healthy and thriving marriage. It is nurtured through love, fidelity, communication, unity, and a shared faith in God, creating a relationship that mirrors the divine covenant between Christ and His Church.
Topical Bible Verses
Titus 1:6
If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly.
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Matthew 5:28
But I say to you, That whoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart.
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Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
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Malachi 2:16
For the LORD, the God of Israel, said that he hates putting away: for one covers violence with his garment, said the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that you deal not treacherously.
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Matthew 19:3-9
The Pharisees also came to him, tempting him, and saying to him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
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Matthew 5:32
But I say to you, That whoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causes her to commit adultery: and whoever shall marry her that is divorced commits adultery.
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Library

The First Sign --The Marriage in Cana.
... Is not the glory He showed at this marriage in Cana precisely what still attracts
us to Him with confidence and affection? Can we not wholly trust this Lord ...
/.../v the first signthe marriage.htm

Letter xviii. Marriage.
... For this reason I would have you avoid the conclusion that marriage is indispensable
to ... And you may be certain of the blessing of God, if you obey and trust him ...
/.../a practical directory for young christian females/letter xviii marriage.htm

His Marriage with Martha Savory.
... much interest and encouragement." On the 13th of the Twelfth Month the marriage
took place ... The day was spent, I trust, profitably, and on parting, about seven o ...
/.../chapter vii his marriage with.htm

Marriage Existed Before Sin was Committed. How God's Blessing ...
... and multiply," [2026] are not prophetic of sins to be condemned, but a benediction
upon the fertility of marriage. ... [2027] And yet faith takes on trust what the ...
/.../augustine/anti-pelagian writings/chapter 40 xxxv marriage existed before.htm

CM Gaskell. Marriage Hymn.
... CM Gaskell. Marriage Hymn. ... 4 In faith, and trust, and heart, the same, The same their
home above; May each in each still feed the flame Of pure and holy love. ...
/.../book of hymns for public and private devotion/380 c m gaskell marriage.htm

At the Marriage Feast
... Both at the marriage feast and upon the cross, the love expressed in tone and ... It
was to honor Mary's trust, and to strengthen the faith of His disciples, that ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/white/the desire of ages/chapter 15 at the marriage.htm

The Love of God Its Own Reward
... each other; of each other's tempers and characters: and yet they trust each other ...
better feelings, all will be well, and they will find after marriage that they ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/kingsley/the good news of god/sermon ix the love of.htm

The Marriage Feast in Cana of Galilee - the Miracle that is a Sign ...
... Viewed in this light, what passed at the marriage in Cana seems like taking ... of maternal
self-consciousness, almost pride, that He, Whom she could trust to do ...
/.../the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter iv the marriage feast.htm

Of the Difference Between the Hirelings and the Faithful Servants ...
The Adornment of the Spritual Marriage. ... And, because they are inwardly unfaithful,
they dare not trust in God; but their whole inward life is doubt and fear ...
/.../john/the adornment of the spritual marriage/chapter vi of the difference.htm

The Royal Marriage Feast.
... and declaring the wearer's fitness for sitting as a guest at the marriage supper
of ... the vital element of love, and at God's command places his trust wholly in ...
/.../arnot/the parables of our lord/xii the royal marriage feast.htm

Resources
What does it mean to trust in Jesus? | GotQuestions.org

How can I learn to trust in the faithfulness of God? | GotQuestions.org

How could Job say, “Though He slay me, I will trust in Him”? | GotQuestions.org

Trust: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Trust

Trust in Marriage

Trust of Saints Is for Ever

Trust of Saints Is in Christ

Trust of Saints Is in God

Trust of Saints Is in the Mercy of God

Trust of Saints Is in the Word of God

Trust of Saints Is: Despised by the Wicked

Trust of Saints Is: Fixed

Trust of Saints Is: Grounded on the Covenant

Trust of Saints Is: Not in Carnal Weapons

Trust of Saints Is: Not in the Flesh

Trust of Saints Is: Not in Themselves

Trust of Saints Is: Strong in the Prospect of Death

Trust of Saints Is: Through Christ

Trust of Saints Is: Unalterable

Trust of Saints: David

Trust of Saints: Hezekiah

Trust of Saints: Jehoshaphat

Trust of Saints: Paul

Trust of Saints: Shadrach

Trust of Saints--Illustrated

Trust of the Wicked is in Earthly Alliances

Trust of the Wicked is in Falsehood

Trust of the Wicked is in Idols

Trust of the Wicked is in Man

Trust of the Wicked is in Their own Heart

Trust of the Wicked is in Their own Righteousness

Trust of the Wicked is in Vanity

Trust of the Wicked is in Wealth

Trust of the Wicked is not in God

Trust of the Wicked is Vain and Delusive

Trust of the Wicked: Benhadad

Trust of the Wicked: Goliath

Trust of the Wicked: Israelites

Trust of the Wicked: Sennacherib

Trust of the Wicked: Shall be Destroyed

Trust of the Wicked: Shall Make Them Ashamed

Trust of the Wicked--Illustrated

Trust: Blessedness of Placing, in God

Trust: Encouragements to Former Deliverances

Trust: Encouragements to The Care of God for Us

Trust: Encouragements to The Everlasting Strength of God

Trust: Encouragements to The Goodness of God

Trust: Encouragements to The Loving-Kindness of God

Trust: Encouragements to The Rich Bounty of God

Trust: Exhortations To

Trust: God is the True Object of

Trust: Keeps From: Desolation

Trust: Keeps From: Fear

Trust: Keeps From: Sliding

Trust: Leads to Being Compassed With Mercy

Trust: Leads to Deliverance from Enemies

Trust: Leads to Enjoyment of all Temporal and Spiritual Blessings

Trust: Leads to Enjoyment of Happiness

Trust: Leads to Enjoyment of Perfect Peace

Trust: Leads to Fulfilment of all Holy Desires

Trust: Leads to Prosperity

Trust: Leads to Rejoicing in God

Trust: Leads to Safety in Times of Danger

Trust: Leads to Stability

Trust: Saints Plead, in Prayer

Trust: should be from Youth Up

Trust: should be With the Whole Heart

Trust: The Fear of God Leads To

Trust: The Lord Knows Those Who Have

Trust: To be Accompanied by Doing Good

Trust: Woe and Curse of False

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Falsehood (107 Occurrences)

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Protect (32 Occurrences)

Recognize (52 Occurrences)

Salvation (386 Occurrences)

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