2850. kolakeia
Lexical Summary
kolakeia: Flattery

Original Word: κολακεία
Part of Speech: Noun, Feminine
Transliteration: kolakeia
Pronunciation: ko-lah-KAY-ah
Phonetic Spelling: (kol-ak-i'-ah)
KJV: X flattering
NASB: flattering
Word Origin: [from a derivative of kolax (a fawner)]

1. flattery

Strong's Exhaustive Concordance
flattering.

From a derivative of kolax (a fawner); flattery -- X flattering.

NAS Exhaustive Concordance
Word Origin
akin to kolax (flatterer)
Definition
flattery
NASB Translation
flattering (1).

Thayer's Greek Lexicon
STRONGS NT 2850: κολακεία

κολακεία (T WH κολακια (see Iota)), κολακείας, (κολεκεύω), flattery: λόγος κολακείας, flattering discourse, 1 Thessalonians 2:5. (Plato, Demosthenes, Theophrastus, Josephus, Herodian, others.)

Topical Lexicon
Definition and Scope

Strong’s Greek 2850, kolakeia, refers to speech designed to ingratiate, manipulate, or gain advantage by appealing to another’s vanity. Unlike genuine encouragement, kolakeia is self-serving, concealing ulterior motives beneath pleasant words.

Usage in the New Testament

The term appears once, in 1 Thessalonians 2:5. Paul reminds the Thessalonian believers, “For, as you know, we never used words of flattery nor any pretext for greed. God is our witness.” His negative statement serves to authenticate the purity of his apostolic ministry. By disavowing flattery, Paul distances himself from traveling sophists and itinerant teachers who exploited audiences for honor, influence, or financial gain.

Flattery in the Old Testament and Intertestamental Literature

While kolakeia itself is not used in the Septuagint, the concept saturates Hebrew wisdom literature:
Psalm 12:2 – “They speak falsehood to one another; with flattering lips and a double heart they speak.”
Proverbs 26:28 – “A lying tongue hates those it crushes, and a flattering mouth causes ruin.”
Proverbs 29:5 – “A man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his feet.”

These passages frame flattery as deceit that snares both speaker and hearer. Second Temple writings (e.g., Sirach 20:29-30) echo the same warning, showing continuity between Testaments.

Historical Background

In the Greco-Roman world flattery was a recognized tool of politicians, patrons, rhetoricians, and court poets. Philosophers such as Aristotle and Plutarch critiqued kolakeia for undermining civic virtue. Paul’s audience, familiar with such social dynamics, would immediately grasp the contrast between manipulative sophistry and Spirit-empowered gospel proclamation.

Theological Significance

1. Nature of God: Scripture presents God as the God of truth (Numbers 23:19; John 14:6). Flattery, rooted in falsehood, stands in direct opposition to His character.
2. Sin and Deception: Flattery exemplifies the deceptive speech that proceeds from the human heart (Jeremiah 17:9; Mark 7:21-23).
3. Integrity of Gospel Ministry: Paul’s refusal of kolakeia underscores that the gospel advances not through human persuasion but through divine power (1 Corinthians 2:1-5).
4. Judgment: Flattery invites divine judgment, as illustrated in the demise of Herod Agrippa when he accepted adulation as divine (Acts 12:22-23).

Related Greek and Hebrew Terms

• Strong’s Greek 5538, chrestologia – “smooth talk,” Romans 16:18.
• Strong’s Hebrew 2505, chalak – “to be smooth,” used metaphorically for flattery in Proverbs 5:3.

These cognates demonstrate a broader biblical concern with speech that entices yet destroys.

Warnings Against Flattery in Christian Ministry

Romans 16:17-18 – False teachers “by smooth talk and flattery deceive the hearts of the naive.”
Jude 16 – “They are grumblers and faultfinders… they flatter others for their own advantage.”

The apostolic writings consistently associate flattery with heresy, greed, and division.

Positive Contrast: Sincere Speech and God-Pleasing Motives

Believers are commanded to “speak the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15) and to have speech “seasoned with salt” (Colossians 4:6). Genuine encouragement builds up (1 Thessalonians 5:11) whereas flattery manipulates. The model is Jesus Christ, whose gracious words (Luke 4:22) were never self-seeking.

Practical and Pastoral Implications

• Discernment: Congregations should evaluate teaching by biblical substance rather than flattering style.
• Accountability: Leaders must invite scrutiny of motives, echoing Paul’s “God is our witness.”
• Integrity in Fellowship: Avoiding flattery fosters authentic relationships, protecting the church from hidden agendas.

Conclusion

Kolakeia represents a subtle yet dangerous sin of the tongue. Scripture exposes its underlying greed and pride, warns of its destructive consequences, and sets forth truthful, Christ-centered speech as the mark of faithful ministry and holy living.

Forms and Transliterations
κεκολαμμένα κεκολαμμένη κεκολαμμένης κεκολαμμένους κολακείας κολακεύων κολακιας κολακίας κολαπτάς kolakeias kolakeías
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1 Thessalonians 2:5 N-GFS
GRK: ἐν λόγῳ κολακείας ἐγενήθημεν καθὼς
NAS: came with flattering speech,
KJV: used we flattering words,
INT: with word of flattery were we even as

Strong's Greek 2850
1 Occurrence


κολακείας — 1 Occ.

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