Absalom's deceit vs. biblical betrayals?
How does Absalom's deceit compare to other biblical examples of betrayal?

Absalom’s Deceitful Strategy – 2 Samuel 15:6

“In this manner Absalom treated all the Israelites who came to the king for justice. So he stole the hearts of the men of Israel.”

• Absalom positions himself at the gate, the public courtroom of the day.

• He sympathizes: “Your case is good and right, but the king has no deputy to hear you.” (v. 3).

• He flatters and grasps hands, kissing each petitioner (v. 5), masking ambition behind warmth.

• The aim: turn loyalty from God’s anointed king to himself, while avoiding any open rebellion—until the hearts were won.


The Shared Anatomy of Betrayal

• Familiar relationship first, then treachery.

• Outward friendliness (a kiss, a greeting, a promise) covers hidden intent.

• Personal advantage drives the betrayal—power, money, revenge.

• A vulnerable moment is chosen, catching the victim off guard.

• The result is turmoil that God still weaves into His redemptive plan.


Parallel: Judas Iscariot – Luke 22:47-48; Matthew 26:48-49

• Judas walks with Jesus for three years, then sells Him for thirty pieces of silver.

• The pre-arranged sign is a kiss: “Judas, are you betraying the Son of Man with a kiss?” (Luke 22:48).

• Like Absalom, Judas exploits intimacy to hide treachery; both target the Lord’s anointed (David, Jesus).


Parallel: Joab and Amasa – 2 Samuel 20:9-10

• Joab greets his cousin with, “Are you well, my brother?” then grabs the beard to kiss—striking a sword instead.

• Same deceptive gesture Absalom used; same quest for power over Israel’s army.


Parallel: Delilah and Samson – Judges 16:15-18

• Delilah professes love yet presses Samson daily for his secret, lured by silver (Judges 16:5).

• As with Absalom, personal gain outweighs covenant loyalty.


Parallel: Joseph’s Brothers – Genesis 37:18-28

• Blood relatives plot while Joseph approaches in trust.

• Profit is the lure (“they sold Joseph for twenty shekels of silver,” v. 28).

• Betrayal sets in motion God’s larger plan of preservation, echoing how David’s trials refine him for future glory.


Parallel: Ahithophel – 2 Samuel 15:31; 17:1-4

• David’s trusted counselor defects to Absalom.

• His intimate knowledge of David’s life mirrors the insider threat seen with Judas among the Twelve.


Key Similarities to Absalom

• Personal closeness used as a weapon.

• Pretense of peace—kisses, counsel, cordial greetings.

• Monetary or positional incentive.

• Short-lived success; divine judgment follows every time (2 Samuel 18:9-15; Acts 1:18; Judges 16:30).


Key Contrasts

• Absalom seeks a throne; Judas seeks money; Delilah seeks money for Philistine rulers.

• Absalom turns the nation; Judas acts within a small circle.

• Outcomes differ in scale yet share God’s overruling sovereignty.


Take-Home Truths

• Betrayal thrives where trust is richest; guard the heart with truth and humility.

• God exposes deceit and preserves His purposes—David returns to the throne, Christ rises, Joseph saves nations.

• The Lord’s anointed may be opposed, yet never ultimately overthrown; His kingdom stands forever.

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