How does Absalom's deceit compare to other biblical examples of betrayal? Absalom’s Deceitful Strategy – 2 Samuel 15:6 “In this manner Absalom treated all the Israelites who came to the king for justice. So he stole the hearts of the men of Israel.” • Absalom positions himself at the gate, the public courtroom of the day. • He sympathizes: “Your case is good and right, but the king has no deputy to hear you.” (v. 3). • He flatters and grasps hands, kissing each petitioner (v. 5), masking ambition behind warmth. • The aim: turn loyalty from God’s anointed king to himself, while avoiding any open rebellion—until the hearts were won. The Shared Anatomy of Betrayal • Familiar relationship first, then treachery. • Outward friendliness (a kiss, a greeting, a promise) covers hidden intent. • Personal advantage drives the betrayal—power, money, revenge. • A vulnerable moment is chosen, catching the victim off guard. • The result is turmoil that God still weaves into His redemptive plan. Parallel: Judas Iscariot – Luke 22:47-48; Matthew 26:48-49 • Judas walks with Jesus for three years, then sells Him for thirty pieces of silver. • The pre-arranged sign is a kiss: “Judas, are you betraying the Son of Man with a kiss?” (Luke 22:48). • Like Absalom, Judas exploits intimacy to hide treachery; both target the Lord’s anointed (David, Jesus). Parallel: Joab and Amasa – 2 Samuel 20:9-10 • Joab greets his cousin with, “Are you well, my brother?” then grabs the beard to kiss—striking a sword instead. • Same deceptive gesture Absalom used; same quest for power over Israel’s army. Parallel: Delilah and Samson – Judges 16:15-18 • Delilah professes love yet presses Samson daily for his secret, lured by silver (Judges 16:5). • As with Absalom, personal gain outweighs covenant loyalty. Parallel: Joseph’s Brothers – Genesis 37:18-28 • Blood relatives plot while Joseph approaches in trust. • Profit is the lure (“they sold Joseph for twenty shekels of silver,” v. 28). • Betrayal sets in motion God’s larger plan of preservation, echoing how David’s trials refine him for future glory. Parallel: Ahithophel – 2 Samuel 15:31; 17:1-4 • David’s trusted counselor defects to Absalom. • His intimate knowledge of David’s life mirrors the insider threat seen with Judas among the Twelve. Key Similarities to Absalom • Personal closeness used as a weapon. • Pretense of peace—kisses, counsel, cordial greetings. • Monetary or positional incentive. • Short-lived success; divine judgment follows every time (2 Samuel 18:9-15; Acts 1:18; Judges 16:30). Key Contrasts • Absalom seeks a throne; Judas seeks money; Delilah seeks money for Philistine rulers. • Absalom turns the nation; Judas acts within a small circle. • Outcomes differ in scale yet share God’s overruling sovereignty. Take-Home Truths • Betrayal thrives where trust is richest; guard the heart with truth and humility. • God exposes deceit and preserves His purposes—David returns to the throne, Christ rises, Joseph saves nations. • The Lord’s anointed may be opposed, yet never ultimately overthrown; His kingdom stands forever. |